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Tsar wrote: ↑August 7th, 2021, 7:16 pm
I will be getting experience with whores, maximum age 25. I realized most girls aren't any better than whores. I just feel like actually dating a girl too old is not smart. She would be too experienced, too independent, and not worth my time or effort. Older females would see me as a loser and know it.
A whore might be more experienced but it is her job to make me happy and she knows if she's nice and good, she will get repeat clients. Most ordinary girls are just stupid sluts that will do the minimum or nothing and expect a guy. A whore is more deserving of my money than filthy sluts that refuse to give me any attention.
Most girls in 2021 have nothing to offer besides sex. They're all too stupid from what I have seen.
Twerking on TikTok, posing for the perfect selfie, doing a duck face, or having sex.
I use to think maybe I can't carryon a conversation but I was wrong. Girls are just too flakey or too stupid because if girls online no matter the country can't maintain a conversation with me then they're either stupid, simple, or both simple and stupid.
Maybe if she was a 25 year old African, an oppressed Palestinian in apartheid Israel, an untouchable in India, or a poor village female in Asia dreaming of city life then sure. They're desperate, probably inexperienced at age 25, or will like me because I am a European there to rescue them. They won't want to offend a superior guy that can help them.
But a 25 year old ordinary woman in any rich nation or middle income nation would see me as a loser when they would be the true losers.
I bet if I turned my Tinder age settings to 18-25, I would see no difference. I use to have it set at 18 only. Changing it to 18-20 made zero difference, neither did changing it to 18-22. I never match with any girl 18-22 unless she's 18 so it proves it isn't just me. I am not compatible with girls that are too old. Age means more social experience and more sex experience. I am bad at both. I can't imagine any logical reason people think I would actually have success with any older girl if she isn't completely desperate.
I plan to volunteer eventually when my health returns but unlike Cornfed, I am broke and wherever I go, I need to leave eventually because I would not have the legal permission to stay long-term without a visa. If I get my health back, I will tryout for the French Foreign Legion. There's really no reason for me not to at that point.
I really wanted things to be different but I am willing to be a mercenary for France for five years. At least I actually have some respect for France unlike how I have zero respect for the United States of America.
Hi
@Tsar, long time no see. I haven't had time to catch up with all of your recent posts but, from what I can see, you seem to be confused as to who a "real man" should be, or what he should do. This sex + dominance thing, based on the biological imperative or procreation, is not supposed to apply to humans the same way it applies to animals.
Rape in the animal world cannot exist because, quite simply, animals are not equipped with free will and only respond to physiological needs. Perhaps given a chance, a healthy female wolf will receive sperm from the alpha male. But if a lesser pack member chooses to impregnate her, do you really think she will turn around and say "no means no", like the average woke college girl?
I have always been fascinated by the perceived feral brutality of the animal kingdom. Besides mankind, Mother Nature offers endless life-or-death situations for its members. If lions won't run after gazelles, they will die and let their cubs die. Mantids will devour ants until they get caught by a wild rodent, who will be alive for as long as a snake won't be around. Snake will thrive until she's free from the fangs of a passing eagle. And so on. A context of relentless brutality only if perceived with human eyes. In reality, there is no violence in any of that, it's the mere food chain unfolding: kill until killed, eat until eaten.
It's humans, and only humans, who are capable of free will and all those fancy, higher-order emotions and behaviours. Lions will only eat what they can catch and what can be fed to their females and cubs, before its flesh rots and becomes a toxic meal. Men will, given a chance, rise to amass fortunes nobody will be able to consume in several generations, often at the expenses of their fellow man. Unlike a man, you will never see a lion kill for the sake of killing. Perhaps a young lion will chase a few more preys than strictly required for survival as part of their training, but that would be it.
Men may rape, yes. Men rape because they want to draw the momentary pleasure of getting sex right there where they want it, certainly procreation being the last thing in their minds as they do it. Perhaps most importantly, men rape because they get pleasure from asserting their physical power over a victim who is uncapable of denying themselves to the act. It's about the sex as much, if not more, about the dominance. It's a heinous act that has no space in the relentless yet innocent animal kingdom. In other words,
evil can only exist as the product of a choice.
Back to your idea of going with pros. Sure, you might be able to get sex from a bunch of willing prostitutes, some young, some mature, and perhaps even learn the mechanics of sex from them. What I think you should not be learning, is that sex is all there is in your interaction with women. By all means hire as many cars as you want, if you want to learn how to drive. But at some point you must understand that most people drive for reasons other than the pleasure of being behind the wheel.
I don't know much about your life but I don't think you are a loser. However you will end up a loser if you don't ground yourself on reality, and fast. This is real life and there's no space for teenage virgins wanting sex with a 30-yo man who, by the way, is himself a virgin and totally unequipped - psychologically and experience-wise - to face that eventuality.
There's no space for romantic knight in shining armour dreams: you will be seen by a girl based on what you can offer. A 16 years old will probably reject you because you are not one of the cool kids in her school and you are not of the same age. A 22 years old will probably reject you because you don't tick any of the boxes of 1) good looks 2) being amazing at sex and 3) providing her with cash and other props. A 28 years old, who might start thinking of settling, will probably reject you because you don't have a job and you don't have a measure of social respect (apart from, maybe, some dimly-lit corners of the online world).
If you're 30 and still inexperienced about sex, I think you need to catch up with how to please a woman, how to move in bed, from petting to (multiple) orgasm. Prostitutes might be of some help. Another option is to actually hook up with a girl who shares your lack of experience and your relative innocence: maybe one of the sweet Filipinas down here might be a good fit. I had a Colombian ex-wife and I can tell you that Latinas, for the most part, are seen as sexually mature at the
quinceanera but they start fooling around way before. If this applies to Mexico, you might find teenagers who might eat you alive if you try approaching them!
In the end, whether you familiarise with the mechanics of sex or not, you need to get the memo that
a relationship with a woman is and should be much more than sex. There's the meeting of minds, the exploring life together, the life and family planning, etc. Of course women can be bitches and dump you for a Chad. The risk is mutual...there also men who dump perfectly fine young ladies and leave them to face the hardship of life with one or two kids and limited support. The idea is to find someone whose feelings you can be sure of, and who you will reciprocate.
It's a lot harder said than done, I know, but it's not impossible, even in this time and place, and it's certainly worth pursuing. This, especially if you're open to travelling and benefiting from those ever-more-elusive "arbitrage windows" that are still open in locations like South East Asia and Latin America.
Drop the obsessions and embrace real life. Good luck.
