You should INSIST on paying for everything.
With Feminism. Men have only one game left in town and that is with money...which is the hardest so you know the times we are living in.
Women already are control freaks, most borderline feminist and imagine, if she starts to be your fair partner in money as well. It would be the end of dating itself.
Why should a women meet men, if she has everything including sperm banks & money.
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Thank GOD...literally, that God created a failsafe against women going all the way to darkness...aka attention of men caring for her, giving her gifts, taking her out, being a provider
She is not a jew

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But...It's already messed up that she works and has money. Ideally, she should be homely, unemployed, no money, no smartphones, poor village kinda girl...so that it would take just one dinner date to fall for you and serve you for the rest of your life.
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My conclusion. You need to move away from her. Ideally, a pure good hearted women, would need just one dinner date and then she will start saying...Don't spend money on this, this and this...because she cares for you.
She would have already said...You have spent enough Zionosis, We need to save money for future but being a man and in love, you would insist, its nothing dear....but she being a women, would make a promised deal that...This would be the LAST time you would be spending money on her.
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None of this happened. This looks like another case of broken heart AI thingy to me.
Red Flag : She already works. It's very dangerous. She has something to fall back too...She won't be 100% committed to her men, because women should never work but serve men and men should provide for her ideally.
I could write forever on her as to why she is not a good match and is dangerous to your well being and heart.
MOVE ON and Never Look Back & Thank God that he woke you up from the endless road to nowhere.