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It's not just feminism, it's also American police she will be dealing with. I mean, one day, she will be interacting with some people she doesn't know, some nosey American police officers will butt right in and be like "Next time, pretend like you're in New York, and say; 'I gotta go' and move on." Really they are saying; "Talking to strangers is a capital felony under Federal law in the United States of America. We don't know what country you are from that lets you just talk to strangers for any reason, but in the United States of America, it absolutely does not fly. If we ever see you talking to strangers again, we will arrest you, and you will be charged with a capital felony under Federal law. That is easily 300 years minimum to life in Federal prison, and you can easily also face the death penalty, along with every single stranger you had conversation with."
I honestly wish the two of you the best of luck.
She sounds like a classy lady and you sound like a nice guy.
Not always but it depends. Your location (away from cities) isn't as relevant as you think. She will still watch tv and constantly hear the western way of thinking. The big factor is simple, as a westerner in the Philippines you have high perceived value. But in the west you as the same guy might be considered as average or much less. She might be beautiful and have a great personality but over there she is just one of many. In the west though the same girl will have very very high perceived value with other guys constantly trying to take her away from you. She will have so many more options and her western sisters will constantly remind her of it. That's why it's dangerous. Could you attract and get the same quality girl in the west? If not beware.
Everybody has a plan til they get punched in the mouth
Things are cheaper in the Philz. Real Estate and houses and condo's are less expensive, but you have to check into whether a foreigner can own real estate in that specific area of the Philz...most of the time a foreigner cannot own real estate. Food is way cheaper, and dining out at restaurants is less than half what it costs in America. Unleaded gasoline is .90 cents a gallon, and diesel is .85 cents a gallon...I assume they are this cheap because they do not have all the taxes added on top like we do in America. The one item I found that costs more was computers and Iphone's and electronic gear...we can get these at a better price here in America because we have more competition that keeps prices lower. Traveling is less expensive in the Philz either by plane or by boat or bus. Hotels are very cheap in the Philz, and our American dollars stretch along way in the Philz. I have read reports of expat retirees living comfortable on $600 to $1200 dollars a month. If you book your American flight from SFO or LAX to CEB at least 3 months in advance you can normally get a round trip from those two locations for around $650 dollars. The Philz is a big tropical paradise that is mostly sunny and humid, so take clothes that wick away the sweat and dry quickly. Book your flight and enjoy your trip.