As if you really care about men! Manginas see fellow men as rivals and seek to destroy them in futile efforts to secure female attention for themselves.
The very fact that you had to go to Indonesia to find a wife and have your first sexual experience means that you could never be the friend of your fellow man. Manginas hate men as a rule.
I wonder about your mental health too given your prepubescent denials about your Indonesian wife and her pre-marital (ahem) "activities." A Captain Save-A -Hoe is always mentally weak.