publicduende wrote: ↑August 11th, 2018, 2:51 am
Winston wrote: ↑August 11th, 2018, 1:13 am
Well you are a traitor. I treated you like a good friend and even stuck up for you and complimented your looks. Traitors are scumbags. Even spies who betray their country and defect, like benedict arnold did, are seen as scumbags by their new host country. May you rot in hell traitor.
At least im not sick like you. I dont get a sick pleasure out of making people feel like shit and telling them negative shit to make them feel bad. Good people uplift others. Do you uplift anyone? No! All you do is bring people down. Very satanic. Hope you rot in hell like you deserve.
And like Gary Mitchell above you will fall into a pit and be imprisoned there for having a God complex. Thats what happens to those who choose the dark side and evil over good. (Holding crucifix at you)
If this were your forum you would have banned me already no doubt. Im not sinking to your level. Ill just let you self destruct. Evil implodes and contains the seeds of its own destruction. So no need to fight it. Just don't get contaminated by it.
I treated you like a good friend, too. I thought good friends give each other sound advice, even if it goes against their way of thinking, their inner narrative. I know it's shocking, but that's what they do. I bitch-slapped you and now you're starting to realise that, effectively, wherever you go, there you are.
If there is someone who receives pleasure to look at you in this sorry condition, it's those "friends" of yours who always seconded you whatever you did, perhaps doing more of the same with you. You know who I am talking about. Why do I have the impression that at least some of them follow your adventures like visitors in a zoo, or ticket holders at a circus show.
If they really felt something to see you fail and complain, scrape the bottom of humanity in one of the seediest places on Earth and not even try to do something about it, are you 100% sure they're such good friends? Think.
If you are sick on a hospital bed and your mom is caressing you and consoling you, then the nurse arrives with an injection that's probably gonna cause you some pain but it's part of your therapy, would you say that the nurse is a traitor because, unlike your mom, she's causing you pain? Only small children would say that.
I tell you for one last time, maybe not as the friend you wish you had but certainly not as a foe:
GROW UP AND START ACTING LIKE AN ADULT. TAKE CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE AT ALL LEVELS, STOP SITTING ON THE LAURELS OF EXPERIENCES YOU HAD 12-15 YEARS AGO AND LIVE IN THE PRESENT. MOST IMPORTANTLY, LIVE IN THIS REALITY, NOT IN YOUR PERSONAL FANTASY.
Then the right woman will come along.
Sorry but I can't change who I am. I have always been fantasy prone and preferred fantasy to reality. I've been like that since childhood. It isn't something I can change. Even if I want to. So please try to understand that. Oh well. At least I have money and assets, so I can afford to live in my "fantasy world".
Not really. My advisors like Rock and Mr S have criticized me a lot. They do not side with everything I say or do. They have their opinions too. And they are freethinkers who say what's on their mind. They do not take my side on every issue or sugar coat things. Read their posts here and you will see that.
I said you were a decent looking guy who looks like he's in his 30's. You said my looks suck. See how I treat you good but you treat me bad? That's not very fair.
If you wanted to give me "tough love" or something, this is how you should have said your point tactfully:
"Winston, it will not be easy to find a pretty girl in Europe who likes you for you. It's a longshot and the odds are against it. But who knows. Anything is possible and you could get lucky, since you have gotten lucky before. But the odds are low and it will not be easy. So be prepared for that."
Not say this: "X person will never get any dates or find any girls that like him in X country".
No one can say the latter. And no one does. It's insane. Not even the smartest man in the world would say that. Because you don't know for sure. You don't know what another man's destiny is. Only God knows that. No one knows what's around the corner. No one can predict the future accurately. Even the best psychics are right about 75 percent of the time. Not 100 percent. That means 25 percent is still a wide margin for error.
Also feelings are subjective. When you least expect it, you could meet a wonderful woman that likes you for you. A woman's heart is not logical, it's unpredictable. I'm sure you know that. We all know that. So you cannot predict with any certainty or accuracy how millions of women will react to me.
Usually AW don't like me. But a few have. And right now, a girl in Texas likes me too. And a few other southern girls have liked me before too. So there are always exceptions. I'm sure you know that. It's a no brainer.
Can you see above how you could have made your point in a more tactful manner? Instead of a hurtful and cruel manner? How would you like it if someone told you "PD, it is impossible for you to get any dates or girls in X country! Totally impossible." How would you like that? How would you like it if someone discouraged you from pursuing your dreams and following your bliss? (like Joseph Campbell advised)
See what I mean? Please think about this for a while and meditate on it. If you have a real heart, you will see what I mean. You ought to retract some of your statements and rephrase them and apologize for them too. I know prideful men never like to apologize for anything, but sometimes you gotta let go of your pride and do what's right and man up. Just like I recently apologized to Davewe in his Philippines report thread for something I said to him that was rude before. See here:
viewtopic.php?f=11&t=37614
I may sound prideful, but I am man enough to apologize when I should. Hope you can do the same too. Listen to your heart. It will tell you what's right, if you have a real soulful compassionate heart that is.