Will N. Dowd wrote: ↑August 19th, 2014, 7:54 amJust wondering if other male members here in the Philippines meet girls alone only or let them bring friends and relatives. It's quite normal for girls to ask if they can bring a friend or relative. I've said OK before and met them in pairs or even three's sometimes, but after comparing my success rate with meeting them alone, I now refuse to meet them unless they come alone. I'm always wondering if I should change that and meet them in pairs again.
Each has it's own pro and cons:
Meeting them with friends and/or relatives means you meet more girls they bring with them, but it means almost no chance of getting them home that time, and it also usually means they expect a meal for all of them, so no thanks. If they only meet you with friends it also shows a lack of self confidence and shyness on their part.
Meeting them alone shows the girl is not scared of meeting foreigners, and has more self confidence and is not shy. It also means if you buy them food it's only them you have to pay for, and of course it also means a much better chance of getting them home alone. The downside is you only meet them and no other potential cute girls.
I've only scored a few times with girls I met with friends or relatives, while I've scored many times that number with girls I met alone.
The whole bringing a friend and relative thing always annoys me because it just smells of shyness and no confidence on their part, something a lot of Filipinas have. I usually tell them sorry I only meet girls alone, and if other girls did it you can too.
Curious to other members opinions and success rate compared to meeting girls alone.
I would urge you to reshape your thinking just a bit! What you might not realize is that the chaperone thing can hugely, hugely work to your benefit! Okay okay not for a super-easy lay and then done. But for a girl who you want to win over, the ultimate tailwind is to get her friends and family on your side. No way of screwing up once they are! The chaperone thing can actually be really fun! Spoil the chaperone a little and you cannot lose. Having the girl's friends whispering positive things in her ear about you is the absolute best thing that could ever happen to you. Just slightly delay your gratification and then it will be better than ever!!!