Which of these is the correct scenario?

[pandabear]

According to this video:




women in this country are a bunch of nymphomaniacs whom no-one will marry because they are giving away far too much sex for free.

According to Phil Zimbardo:




The guys aren't even bothering to get laid, because they are much too busy playing video games and watching pornography.

There seems to be a contradiction here. Who is right? What is the correct explanation?

[TopSpruce]

According to this video:




women in this country are a bunch of nymphomaniacs whom no-one will marry because they are giving away far too much sex for free.

According to Phil Zimbardo:




The guys aren't even bothering to get laid, because they are much too busy playing video games and watching p***.

There seems to be a contradiction here. Who is right? What is the correct explanation?

I agree with Zimbardo here. The culture is f***ed up for a lot of reasons.

Too much porn, internet use, video gaming.

I found myself being way better off befriending non-Americans(Indians, Chinese, Africans, etc) than Americans who preferred to watch TV and play video games all day. Modern culture sucks, and Philip Zimbardo said it best "Its not my job to give you the solution, I'm just here to warn you. You guys solve it!"

Even in Belarus and Ukraine, the younger generation is into computer games, internet use, and porn. The girls get porn too...in the form of emotional porn from unrealistic portrayals of relationships in romantic comedies.

[pandabear]

Okay. But, I'm wondering, what proportion of men are getting free sex with hot chicks? There must be at least some truth to the first video, too. But, lots and lots of guys complain that they aren't getting any. It must be just the alphas who are getting sexed by all the ladies--the few men whom are women consider marriage material.

[pandabear]

This one is hilarious, and supports the idea (from the first video) that men call the shots in the marriage market.