Outcast9428 wrote: ↑March 24th, 2023, 11:19 pm
@Kalinago
This looks exactly the same as every PUA book ever. All of them say they've cracked some kind of magical code to making you into a pickup God. The fact is, picking up women in the liberal manner requires a lot of non-verbal communication that many guys will never understand. Conservatism is better because it follows a logical path that any guy can understand and adopt.
And no, Latin America is not a man's paradise... I know this because I've been to Florida a lot, I dated a girl from Florida, and Florida is basically Latin America but happens to exist on the US landmass. Latin America is only suitable for guys who understand and genuinely accept that anything you've built in life can be taken from you at any moment and that you will have to fight in order to maintain whatever success you achieve. Latin America appeals a lot to people who haven't built anything in life because Latin America offers more easy opportunities then anywhere else, but these men have never felt what its like to actually achieve happiness, to build something out of your life, and then have it taken away from you.
In Eastern Europe, East Asia, or the middle class and upper middle class Southern US states, it is harder to get a girl in the first place... But once you get a girl, she'll be a much higher quality partner and she'll stick by you and show genuine love and loyalty. Same thing with jobs. In conservative environments, its harder to get the good job at first but once you get it, you don't have to worry about losing it. Whereas in liberal cultures, people get laid off all the time. Its a fire and hire environment. There is no room for peace or relaxation, you must always be on the go, you must constantly prove yourself to your woman and to your employer every day that you still deserve her love and that you still deserve your job and be on the lookout for threats all the time.
That does not sound like paradise. An actual paradise would be a full blown traditionalist country like Thailand or the Philippines that provides both, easy to get a girl but also easy to keep her. People on this forum keep comparing the Philippines to Latin America. It really isn't like Latin America at all. There are vague similarities but the cultures are nowhere near as similar as y'all seem to think they are. I dated a Filipina girl and she told me "no degeneracy is tolerated at all among Filipinos, everybody gossips about everyone, you can't keep any secrets." I met her mother as well, and speaking to her really was like talking to somebody who had been raised in the 1950s. The idea of people even having casual sex seemed so foreign and alien to her that she was oddly permissive with her daughter not because she has a liberal mindset but because she didn't even realize what kind of things American teenagers do when they go out with their peers. After talking to her daughter about what hotel she was staying in, and hearing the name of it, she actually turned to me and innocently asked what hotel I had booked. It didn't even cross her mind that we would have booked the same hotel room.
My ex-girlfriend once told me that her parents don't even understand that one night stands are a thing that people do. That's how alien casual sex actually is to the Philippines. If people here are meeting lots of people from the Philippines open to sexual degeneracy, then there is something they are doing which is attracting strange people to them. The universe has a way of bringing the kind of people you want to meet towards you. And if you're somebody who seeks out sexual degeneracy, then you're going to find it. Just like if you're somebody who seeks out trouble, criminal gangs and violence, then you're going to find it even in countries that largely do not tolerate that kind of thing. But casual sex is definitely not part of the Filipino culture, and official surveys back this up saying only 6% of Filipinos have ever had casual sex.
The Philippines is basically 1950s America plopped out in the middle of the Pacific islands.
Laughable drivel.You have a agenda.you are not open to new perspectives.
You made up your mind.
We had totally different experiences in florida.could be our differing races and looks.Florida is also americanized latinos,more latino than american but still heavily americanized.
the idea that filipino women arent whores is also laughable,Atleast latinas have dignity and standards for a man's genes.Filipino women will f**k any piece of genetic trash that offers them a better life or is white.
You also a coward,because I am a autist,but I can be social in the right environment and when I have interest,and I thrive in social cultures.You are scared of game and winning women over,which is not hard if women have a baseline interest in you,and the factors are in your favor.No,not all or even msot women are going to like you ANYWHERE,not even a male model is liked by all women.
I get it.american and western women suck.They have a fake view of a desirable guy.they are heavily brainwashed by the media,and are racist.\
Latinas like Guys that are desirable,naturally.natural game.it's self reciprocating,the more women are open to men,the more game you develop because it gets rewarded and rejectionj is no big deal,100 other women want to suck you off.
american women all think exactely like,liek the same things which are immutable(a certain look,your race,your social niche).latinas have commonalities too but they are positive in getting sex and feeling like a man,and they are more individual in their thinking.
they are actually are heterosexual.
As for conservative women etc Working like a slave for a woman and the idea she is a pure madonna is asininine bullshit I myself believed in for a long time and it cockblocked me.
all women are succubi and have desires.that doesn't mean they will be unloyal if you have any basic aspect of desirbility.this is how I know you're a complete boring narrow minded unattractive nerd like other posters have said.Scared to live.actually live.
Asian women are consolation prizes for ugly nerds.Latinas are for attractive men that can handle sexual women.
yoj also confuse western female sexuality which is sinister,with latina sexuality which is not.it's something you have to experience,to put your finger on,but non-westernized latinas have a positive animalistic sexuality that makes you feel like a f***ing man,on top of feeling cared for and with affection.
also Hookup is not s thing in collombia for 90% of women.a american latino expat there confirmed that for me.its too dangerous to do.people dont trust people like that.
I do not like stale relationships or routine.I literally dont care if a woman leaves me,I don't want fake love.there are millions of hot women in latin america available to me when I go there,why would I care about a woman leaving me?a woman that would leave you was never for you,and you dodged a bullet and a fake love and marriage that would have made you miserable.
Yes,commitment is good.I believe in soulmates,or more so multiple compatible souls.
but this cannot be found in a logical calculated manner.
that is difference,We like to 'fel'and 'live'and not follow some script.but to each their own.
no point in arguing about our subjective and unique experiences.
how old are you?if you weren't christian would you think this way?or are you forcing your reality perception and likes to confirm with your dogmas?
Im not attaxking your belief in God btw,i am just curious.if you found 100% evidence God doesn't exist,would you have the same view on how to live life?
being against the fast life,the thrills,the pleasure,the lack of duty and stress etc
yes latin america is dangerous,but some people see that as the only negative and worth the risk.others do not.again each their own.
most latinas are very good women.they're just horny as f**k and like hot men just as much as you like hot girls.
work on your inner gamke dude.work on your self-image.
I know exactely the type of guy that hypes up SEA women.sure if thats your fav look in as woman,thats different.
but most men will find more fulfillment in the libertine oppurtunities offered to men in latin america,than some stale f***ing marriage and house in a boring neighbourhood going to church every sunday and working hard to keep that stale fake life up.