Will N. Dowd wrote:I'm come to the conclusion that most Filipinas love the idea of joining online dating sites, in order to scam and/or chat with foreign guys. They would rather have a virtual online foreign BF that sends them money, but they don't want to really meet him. Most of them will never meet a foreign guy, because when it comes down to actually meeting them, they will usually chicken out and say they are scared. They will often say they have had one or several foreign BF's, but with a catch. They have never actually met any of them.
So thousands join online "dating" sites without actually going on dates or meeting anyone. Some of these are professional or amateur scammers, but others are just normal girls looking to chat with foreign guys, but when the guy is there in their town and says let's meet finally, most will flake, vanish or say they have a bf, are married, or any other excuse to avoid meeting them in person. So many girls on FC, DIA etc, will simply not respond to messages or texts once you are there. They will happily chat on the site itself and give out facebook and phone numbers, but those leads usually turn into nothing.
It is easy to chat online, where you can hide behind photo shopped pictures, and say you don't have a webcam, especially when you are chatting with someone on the other side of the world. But actually meeting the foreign guy when he is here in town, that usually proves too much for Filipinas, who have such low self confidence. The whole thing of being short, brown and poor, compared to a taller, whiter and richer guy is too much for most to handle, and they will give up. That's why online dating sites here have so many profiles that are not active in months or years.
Definitely don't agree with that.
If you BEGIN right there in their town, search for girls online now, in your immediate area, you will be surprised how quickly they want to meet. I have had girls come right over to my house, though not alone. Most will want to meet at a nearby cafe or SM Mall.
Girls who only want to chat with and scam overseas foreigners are awake in the middle of the night because of the time difference. Girls online during the day must be doing something else. I also stayed out of the big cities on my second trip there. Provinces are not grass huts and dirt roads. They have gated fommunities, SM malls and everything else. Just no skyscrapers. Not all girls speak good english either, and I suspect most have little to no experience with foreigners.
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