Why are white expats in Taiwan leaving for the Philippines?

[newlifeinphilippines]

Well thats pretty insulting to say but my standards are much higher for WIFE material than everyone else here. Im not gonna settle for marriage with a slut, catholic, or average looking woman for a wife so there goes most of the country.

You're never have a wife who's even half the woman my wife is. Never in your wildest dreams. Even if by some miracle you find your perfect little Baptist model, she still won't be in her league. Your standards aren't "high", they are completely and utterly retarded. You can't handle a wife, a family, responsibility. You are probably best off staying in your house in America, making money and trying to get into Heaven by yourself.

Looks? Looks fade. And if you would refuse a woman because she is Catholic, then you don't even deserve that woman in the first place. She deserves a better man then you who isn't as childish. You are like a little spoiled brat who doesn't want to play with a kid who doesn't have the same fire truck. Grow the f**k up and accept the fact that not all Catholic women are instantly not wife material. Your childish and ridiculous standards will make you die a lonely, sad man.

If you refuse to even CONSIDER 90% of a countries female population simply because they follow a slightly different form of Christianity then you do, then you deserve every bad luck you get. You've never even been with a decent woman who likes you for who you are, and the reason for that is your attitude. Your attitude is toxic, and you need to improve it if you ever want any semblance of a normal life.

Get off your high horse you are very arrogant.


Actually I been on a date with a innocent college educated baptist girl who was not interested in money at all but sort of as a friend i didn't pursue it i ejected quickly at the time cause I didn't care for her personality and I wasn't looking for a wife at the time and I was with the bargirl at the time.

Ill only accept a catholic girl if she converts, if she doesn't then I wont for marriage. Even the gf i could tell while going to church and stuff wasn't genuinely interested and that caused issues but at least she did go to church. But I want someone interested and if they care more about tabloids and superficial stuff (like the gf) or are into their catholic faith and refuse to budge then id rather not marry them.

[newlifeinphilippines]

Newlifephilippines,

Your like walking contradiction. You claim you make $20 K a month on some internet business maybe you do and maybe you don't but $20K is plenty to raise a family so I have no idea how economic would be an issue . Unless your lying. I even asked you a couple of time in what you do. Just because I ask doesn't mean I would or someone else would be able to steal or copy what you do. I mean you don't want to divulge which is your prerogative but it makes me suspicious in what you claim.

Many of your threads revolve around a women or even Philippine women along those lines. . You went to the Philippines and it seems to me you have this bitterness because it didn't work out. And realize it's ALLOT HARDER TO FIND SOMEONE.

I never met you so I don;t know what kind of person you really are. Sometimes people have this internet persona. But in some ways I kind of feel sorry for you. Again I don't mean to be insulting. Many posters that come to happierabroad have some mental issues For me it was growing up in America and dealing with American racism that left me bitter and angry.

I think for you. Your not that far apart form that but throw in loneliness and some other complex. It's like your searching for this ideal perfect woman that would be a slave to you..good luck in finding that..because it's just an ideal.

Its actually way higher than 20K but im quitting soon. after that ill be lucky to make a few hundred to thousand a month LOL. Also i really dont want kids and finding a wife in a foreign country is extremely difficult and expensive cause it takes time and alot have ulterior agendas. So im not in a rush to look for a wife unlike marcos whos whole life is to make women his god id rather focus on what I need to do women are not important if your lacking in other areas.

[newlifeinphilippines]

Get off your high horse you are very arrogant.

You are the arrogant one who believes a girl should be above average to "qualify" for being your wife, when you are quite unnattractive yourself. If you think you deserve a very good looking wife, why don't you show us what YOU look like?

Actually I been on a date with a innocent college educated baptist girl who was not interested in money at all but sort of as a friend i didn't pursue it i ejected quickly at the time cause I didn't care for her personality and I wasn't looking for a wife at the time and I was with the bargirl at the time.

Maybe you will encounter a Catholic girl one day who is wonderful, cute, has a fun personality and has great chemistry with you. But you won't consider, arrogantly dismissing her for "having the wrong faith". You're a joke, pal.

Ill only accept a catholic girl if she converts, if she doesn't then I wont for marriage. Even the gf i could tell while going to church and stuff wasn't genuinely interested and that caused issues but at least she did go to church. But I want someone interested and if they care more about tabloids and superficial stuff (like the gf) or are into their catholic faith and refuse to budge then id rather not marry them.

If you love a girl, or like her genuinely, you would never demand her to change her faith for you. Let her belief what she wishes to belief, and believe what you want to believe yourself. But allow her her own beliefs.

I will allow her to have her own beliefs, she just wont be with me for marriage she can go find someone else. The only joke is you cowtow to any girl and worship them like a God. Also you dont even believe in christianity (dont say you do) so you have no right to speak on what I choose to be with someone who is the same faith as me. Marriage is a union of two people and is unfit with an unbeliever.

[newlifeinphilippines]

I will allow her to have her own beliefs, she just wont be with me for marriage she can go find someone else. The only joke is you cowtow to any girl and worship them like a God. Also you dont even believe in christianity (dont say you do) so you have no right to speak on what I choose to be with someone who is the same faith as me. Marriage is a union of two people and is unfit with an unbeliever.

A Catholic girl isn't an UNbeliever she is DIFFERENT believer. Get the difference.

My wife and I do not have exactly the same beliefs and it's fine. I don't want a robot or a drone, I want a PERSON. And a person is what I got. Marriage is a union of two people, I agree entirely. But you can have a marriage just fine with someone who has different religious views on a few issues. It takes some tolerance on your side, it doesn't work when you have the religious fanaticism of an ISIS Sheikh, but if you like someone genuinely, these things shouldn't bother you as much as they do.

Well thats the thing your not a true christian so why should you care I wouldn't care if i had your beliefs either. But I do not follow your ideology so it matters more than anything else. Id rather marry a bargirl who genuinely loves me but genuinely is my faith and loves God than a virgin catholic girl who refuses to change beliefs genuinely.

[Falcon]

How women from each country respond to me on DateInAsia, in order of how much interest and attention I get, and how likely the ladies would reply.
I communicate with them in their native languages.

1. Philippines - Most will reply. Quite a few will be absolutely thrilled to talk to me. I'm bombarded with attention. It can get hard to choose!
2. Indonesia - Maybe half will reply. More career women and "leftover women". Definitely pickier than Filipinas, but still quite friendly.
3. Thailand - Some reply, but not that many. They're pickier now. Thailand is also a lower-middle income country like Malaysia now.
4. China - A few, but short platonic chats. Most don't reply. You get more career women and "leftover women".
5. Taiwan - ZERO ethnic Taiwanese reply to me. Not including Southeast Asians living in Taiwan. And the irony is that I'm Taiwanese-American!

Look at the ranking. This pretty much corresponds to economic development.

And look at how Taiwan and the Philippines are at complete ends of the spectrum, even though they're right next to each other!

[Winston]

A post from roosh forum explains why white men are not as wanted in Taiwan as they imagine, not surprisingly:

"Regarding that article titled "15 Countries Where Women Are Always On The Lookout For White Males"...

I've lived in Taiwan for 19 months. It's a huge myth that Taiwanese women are into white guys. They're not. It seems like the only ones who perpetuate this myth are ABCs, Taiwanese FOBs in the USA, and Anglosphere white guys in Taiwan who hang out in expat circles. (You won't hear, for example, Swedish, German, and Swiss white guys in Taiwan arrogantly bragging that Taiwanese women are into white guys.)

Taiwanese women are into *Taiwanese* guys. The most common interracial coupling (with a Taiwanese women) I've seen in Taiwan is Taiwanese women and Japanese men. As of five years ago, this was the most common type of international marriage in Taiwan involving a Taiwanese women.

In 2013, when I told a mid-30s Chinese-Singaporean woman in the USA that I had traveled to Taiwan, she told me that "Taiwanese women love foreigners, especially white foreigners." Maybe that's true in Singapore (I've never been there, so I have no idea), or maybe it was true in Singapore in the past when she was in her prime, but it is far from being true in Taiwan.

In Taiwan, there is a slight stigma against dating foreigners. The insult term used for such women is xīcān měi (西餐妹) which literally means "Western meal sister." The term xīcān měi is used to describe women who date any ethnicity of foreigner, such as white, black, etc. The women who are into foreigners in Taiwan even consider ABCs to be Western guys.

I've seen how white guys struggle in the dating scene in Taiwan. But Anglosphere white guys are so egotistical that they think they are such big studs just because they are occasionally able to get an ugly Taiwanese girl that most local Taiwanese guys would never want.

Perhaps the biggest flaw (out of many) with Anglosphere white guys is assuming that Taiwanese women are similar to ABC women (many ABC women do indeed prefer white guys). Again, it's not true.

Perhaps there was a time where Taiwanese women were into white guys, but if that's the case, the youngest of those women are approaching 40. Not my cup of tea.

You should read a post on the Roosh V Forum by an Anglosphere white guy who is actually honest about the dating scene in Taiwan. His screen name is LeightonBlackstock. I have been to every bar/nightclub he mentions in his post, and I was blown away by his pinpoint accuracy. This man has amazing powers of observation, even down to the tiny details. Most Anglosphere white guys in Taiwan have a delusional "white god complex," but LeightonBlackstock does not. Here is his exceptionally accurate post about Taiwan:

https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-29228.html "

[Jonny Law]

How women from each country respond to me on DateInAsia, in order of how much interest and attention I get, and how likely the ladies would reply.
I communicate with them in their native languages.

1. Philippines - Most will reply. Quite a few will be absolutely thrilled to talk to me. I'm bombarded with attention. It can get hard to choose!
2. Indonesia - Maybe half will reply. More career women and "leftover women". Definitely pickier than Filipinas, but still quite friendly.
3. Thailand - Some reply, but not that many. They're pickier now. Thailand is also a lower-middle income country like Malaysia now.
4. China - A few, but short platonic chats. Most don't reply. You get more career women and "leftover women".
5. Taiwan - ZERO ethnic Taiwanese reply to me. Not including Southeast Asians living in Taiwan. And the irony is that I'm Taiwanese-American!

Look at the ranking. This pretty much corresponds to economic development.

And look at how Taiwan and the Philippines are at complete ends of the spectrum, even though they're right next to each other!

MEANWHILE IN THAILAND
Thai woman (aka. Cum-Dumpster whore) murders her new born child!
Thai women are worthless whores and a waste of your time.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fk9VvJOXbng

[chanta76]

Taiwan is a one of those wealthy Asian countries. There is a correlation with wealth and women liberation movement and pickiness. One of the biggest advantage a white guy brings from the west is that illusion of wealth. But a Taiwanese girl or a Korean or Japanese girl has some wealth already. You have to be either really good looking and have game nowadays to get girls. In other words it sucks.