Winston wrote:
Yeah but I was NOT prompting for her opinion. So what does this have to do with anything?
Repatriate, why can't you accept that some women may have a DIFFERENT opinion of my looks than you do? Why do you believe that what you think of my looks must be the universal opinion of everyone? Why do you believe that it's impossible for a sincere woman to find me physically good looking? How do you know that that's not their honest opinion?
I'm not ugly or unattractive. That means that some women will find me handsome or good looking. Why do you think that is outside the realm of possibility?
Why is that impossible for you to believe? Why must your opinion represent everyone's opinion? Can you explain that logically?
Outliers are always possible i'm not denying that it isn't. It's just unlikely is all i'm saying and you take passing compliments way too seriously.
I'm just basing this on typical observable standards. Others may agree or disagree with these points but I think a lot of these flaws mean a lot in countries like Taiwan and various other asian nations.
1) You're grossly out of shape complete with middle aged paunch that looks like an alien is going to pop out like Kuato in Total Recall.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xO1kKemcwYk
Sure there may be a few pacific islander, african, and middle eastern cultures which like men with paunches but usually those types are usually rich too.
2) You look fairly old for your age and with a face that lacks character or charisma. If I didn't know any background info about you i'd say you might be in your late 40's.
3) You're fairly short to boot. I think this matters a lot less when compared to everything else though since there are plenty of conventionally handsome, skinny, and short guys who do very well in Asia. It's your height/weight ratio that probably makes it a lot worse.
4) You dress very poorly.
I don't think my opinion is universal but i'm willing to bet that there's a high probability that this is why you have such a hard time in Taiwan at least. You have blamed it on a host of factors including race, the rest of the female population in Taiwan, the culture, conspiracies against free thinkers etc.. but I think the answer is much more obvious.
With that said, I do think you have a much higher chance of finding your match in China though. Simply because it's such a large pool of women with a huge variation in cultural attitudes and social levels. Plus you definitely possess a decent social status compared with most Chinese men there despite everything else.
I don't understand why you take it so hard when people say you're unattractive...conventionally speaking. Here's the thing Winston there _is_ a scientific survey that correlates symmetry of face, height, and weight with universal attractiveness.