growup wrote: ↑September 1st, 2018, 10:41 pm
I don't think the great majority of you is made up of woman haters, but I think there are some in your ranks.
You can say the same 'gender-reversed' - there are plenty of Western women who hate men....
About MGTOW, men showing up in those forum are often really very disappointed, mentally and financially broken, and are indeed hateful.
We always try to explain them that hate is a way to no-where, it is self-destructive.
The best is to cut any contact - never look back - and to move on and to start a new life with entire new people.
While I do think that women can take some things out of context when approached by a man, women also have to protect themselves against rapists and the like.
Having been a rape victim, I understand a heightened level of awareness/not necessarily wanting to be approached by a man.
I don't understand a standoffish attitude or just turning the guy down nicely.
That's all.
Have a great night
You said, women also have to protect themselves against rapists and the like.
However you should understand that men also have to protect themselves against false accusers, paternity fraud and the like.
And hardly any law will protect men against women, even not in case of serious wrongdoing.
I think, you maybe underestimate the huge number of women who are ready to harm men in any aspect of life you can image if they see a chance.
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Nobody within the MGTOW community I ever met will question the fact, that crazy, violent and irresponsible men do exist.
Some of them are truly human trash, only place which fits them is the prison.
And let me say something else: here with this HA-Forum and also within the MGTOW Forum I am the admin, you as a female can sign up and openly write comments about all and everything, even if men will not agree with you.
However if I post my opinion in any feminist forum, my comment will be edited, deleted or even never published and the username will be banned.
Of course this pro feminist behavior makes men very mistrusting.
About rape/rape victims - there are female and male victims, but women often acknowledge only females as victims and only see men as perpetrators.
However, it was not us, the MGTOWs, but feminists, who distorted the meaning of what 'rape' really means or should mean.
Nowadays nobody really knows anymore what 'rape' means - there are now about 15 or more different kind of rape.
If a man does not give money to his girlfriend, she feels 'financially raped'...
And you might be 'digitally raped' while talking online....
A male feminist, Hugo Schwyzer, even created a category called 'accidentally raped', what should this mean....
It's about a woman who gives full consent, later on regrets and claims she 'feels like raped'.... etc.
A married woman, if she wants to get rid of her husband because she has a boyfriend, she needs only to claim 'spousal rape', no proof required, her word is enough to kick the husband out and the boyfriend moves in...
Basically everything nowadays, what a man might say or do with a woman in a Western country can be considered as 'rape'....