Couldn't have been said any more beautifully my friend. It's just like Winston said you can't be yourself in America no one will ever accept you for being yourself nor your interests. A lot of people here think I am strange for liking Asian women one guy even told me how can you get a hard on with Asian women? It's like really are you that ignorant a woman is a woman to me if she is attractive I don't care where she's from I will get a hard on LOL.Adama wrote: ↑March 13th, 2018, 10:14 amKeep your heart with all diligence, and give not that which is holy unto the dogs. That means basically that you really can't tell anyone much of anything, as much as we might like to feel validation and approval from others. Really most people are laying in wait to spoil you by psychological warfare when you open your mouth to confess the deep things out of your heart.JesseL26 wrote: ↑March 12th, 2018, 1:54 pmThose ''friends'' that you say you have are not true friends I was on the same boat. I wanted to go to Thailand to find a woman because I know how shitty women are in America. And mostly everyone supported me my family and some friends. But there were 2 EX friends as I like to call them who were against it they would talk smack all day and say why don't you go for a girl here. I'd tell them you think for one second if I could find a quality woman in America that I would fly overseas? Real friends support your happiness no and's if's or but's about it.
Because any time you tell someone your hopes, dreams, desires, opinions, beliefs, wishes, likes and dislikes, preferences, tastes or anything that comes from your heart, chances are the other person is going to delight in knocking it and you down. It is much better just to not share those things. Because they will use those things to hurt you, to twist them, to make it seem like you're unworthy of it, or that it's impossible, or that it makes you a criminal for having such a desire, or they will make it seem like only a fool or a loser would prefer such a thing, or they will otherwise use it to deride you and to make you seem inferior to them for feeling that way.
So can you tell your "friends" about your desire for a foreign woman? Well I have been called a pedophile and weak for wanting foreign women without even mentioning their age. I have been told that a real man wants a strong woman, FROM MEN. (One man in particular had a live-in GF that was so mean to him that he had a heart attack at age 29 after arguing with her.)
It's a hard lesson. Most people are not worthy of your good words if you are a good person. They want to blow out your candle, thinking it will make theirs shine more brightly.
The people calling you a pedo for liking foreign women are retarded. Women age a lot faster than men ever seen a man and a woman together in a relationship and both are the same age the woman looks miles older. It makes sense to go for a younger woman. In America if you date a lot younger than you even though the woman is past legal age you are considered creepy. I am 31 years old but people say I look 24-25. I have talked to 18-21 year olds at work just co workers nothing more nor am I interested in them and they think a guy that is 26 is too old for them. Now on the other hand when I chat to foreign women from China or the Philippines or Vietnam 18-19 year olds are flattered that I show interest in them and they say that I am the perfect age for them.
And lastly those morons saying you need a strong woman are CUCKS. I bet you these are the type of guys that take any sh** from women and bend right over for them talk about spoiling the entitled princesses even more no wonder the divorce rate in America is sky rocketing. The last thing you want is a strong independent woman nor a careerism woman. What you want is a traditional feminine a gentle female none of which are available in America nor the westand if you manage to find one they are taken been there done that myself. So do yourself a favor and either try to meet immigrant women here from non westernized nations that aren't spoiled yet or travel trust me if you wait here to date one of these women from here you'll be alone forever.