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What about a man who only wants sex with a woman whom he loves?MarcosZeitola wrote:A male virgin in his twenties or older is seen as a defective human being by most. And harsh as this may sound, there is a lot of common sense in that. Because if you live in a country with an abundance of sluts and easy, immoral women, there really is no reason for you not to get laid and your inability to do so hints at a problem on your part.
RickyRetardo wrote:What about a man who only wants sex with a woman whom he loves?MarcosZeitola wrote:A male virgin in his twenties or older is seen as a defective human being by most. And harsh as this may sound, there is a lot of common sense in that. Because if you live in a country with an abundance of sluts and easy, immoral women, there really is no reason for you not to get laid and your inability to do so hints at a problem on your part.
Some people find the idea of casual sex unappealing.
Marcos's viewpoint is one of many. But male virgins can't be grouped into one category or some can't be grouped in any categorical viewpoint. Every person is different. A male virgin isn't defective. Sometimes a male virgin chooses not to lose his virginity, especially to a defective slut.World must be more attentive to male virgins
Link to Article: http://english.pravda.ru/society/sex/28 ... _virgin-0/
It is very likely that one of the greatest scientists in history, Nicola Tesla, also remained a virgin.Promises, religion or personal beliefs may be reasons for male virginity. Mathematician Isaac Newton and philosopher Immanuel Kant preserved their virginity, since they believed that it is worth wasting your energy on science, not on sex.
source: http://english.pravda.ru/society/sex/28 ... _virgin-0/
What do you mean Tsar? I took another century for Marx's blueprint to see any progress.Tsar wrote:I have a blueprint for an ideal society there's no real point at this time to actually write that into a manifesto. Established societies are already set in stone and there's no way they can be fixed from the inside. They must be destroyed and then rebuilt using a new blueprint.Gadfly wrote:I am a Christian... IMO if societies hope to survive, then they can't be secular. I would like to see human societies run as Christian theocracies. But even that is no guarantee of success, unless the citizenry were vigilant in their devotion to God.
I don't have a blueprint for the ideal society. But then, human intellect is nothing, compared to the power of Satan. He will ruin every attempt at a well-organized, disciplined, patriarchal society. So if we don't have God on our side, we’re going to lose.
abcdavid01 wrote:What do you mean Tsar? I took another century for Marx's blueprint to see any progress.Tsar wrote:I have a blueprint for an ideal society there's no real point at this time to actually write that into a manifesto. Established societies are already set in stone and there's no way they can be fixed from the inside. They must be destroyed and then rebuilt using a new blueprint.Gadfly wrote:I am a Christian... IMO if societies hope to survive, then they can't be secular. I would like to see human societies run as Christian theocracies. But even that is no guarantee of success, unless the citizenry were vigilant in their devotion to God.
I don't have a blueprint for the ideal society. But then, human intellect is nothing, compared to the power of Satan. He will ruin every attempt at a well-organized, disciplined, patriarchal society. So if we don't have God on our side, we’re going to lose.
Dude you must be one of those people that talk a lot of shit because you live in a country where there is nothing but easy desperate women everywhere. Not everyone can just get up and take action. That's like telling a homeless person to recover from being homeless, yet you ignore the fuckin fact that by them being homeless they can't get a job, they have no money to even begin. You can't assume everyone on the streets is a drug user either, it takes a lot of understanding before you start being an Ahole and judging people for how they are. Any man that goes around acting like sex is a major important thing in life is a big lame ass prick. No sense of understanding, just assume and think you know everyone's situation but don't. f***ing women has nothing to do with strength. A lot of guys want to flock to the Philippines because they know there they can take advantage of any girl they want to. Including decent ones they end up getting pregnant and leaving. I read too many stories about guys doing that shit, go overseas just to f**k around they hardly ever go for the intentions of finding someone to love and this makes ALL men look bad. Decent women don't want some bastard ass punk who's goal is to just f**k and sleep around.MarcosZeitola wrote:Very true. Men not being men is the biggest reason. But to be fair, it's not much of a loss. If a weak and whiny man cannot get laid, so be it. I feel more the strong and decent man who is in the same boat. But at least he has the tools to get out there, go into the world and change his life for the better. The strong man acts, the weak man cries alone in a corner. It's always been like that, and I suspect it always will be.OutWest wrote:The epidemic is one of millions of pathetic little whiny he-bitches. Men are no longer men, they are "guys",
or little "manlets". Churches of course have become little more than enforcers for the pu$$y cartel.
It's really messed up and indicative of a culture in terminal decline.
There's also the fact that these "chronic virgins" make their lack of sexual success into a part of their identity. It becomes who they are, rather then a problem they face. They make it their identity and take no action, inspire no pity or sympathy with their attitudes, nor get or deserve any understanding. They do not take a good look at their own personalities, life styles and life's choices.
Yes society is messed up, yes, there are many men suffering from this, but no, crying about it won't "fix" a thing. You fixing yourself will. It's all you can do. If you are not a part of the solution, you are a part of the problem.
What a load of BS. You sound like some typical keybaord alpha from ROTK or some similar PUA bullshit site.MarcosZeitola wrote:Male virgins above a certain age are usually nature's way of weeding out the weak, the indecisive and the unfit from procreating. Not counting those who remain virgins for religious reasons who may very well marry and have families of their own at one point.
The type of man who cannot get laid and instead whines about his lack of action from behind his cosy chair & desk at home, is not the type of guy that Mother Nature and God intended to procreate in the first place. A male virgin often is a man without drive or passion, without power or conviction. He does a lot of contemplating, complaining and reflecting, but very little to actually combat the situation he is in. He cries over what he lacks, but does very little to make up for it.
A male virgin in his twenties or older is seen as a defective human being by most. And harsh as this may sound, there is a lot of common sense in that. Because if you live in a country with an abundance of sluts and easy, immoral women, there really is no reason for you not to get laid and your inability to do so hints at a problem on your part.
The virgin Western male is a male who failed to adapt to a society that is corrupt, and who simultaneously refused to leave said society for greener pastures. He wants his cake and eat it too, but never takes the walk to the bakery so he remains hungry.
The problem and question here is to try what? And what about the risk you face as a man in Western countries?MarcosZeitola wrote: I never said American culture, or perhaps even Western culture as a whole, has some serious problems. Because I believe it does and I would never deny that. All I was saying is that a lot of men could be getting sex, but aren't for the simple fact that they aren't trying, that they aren't taking the right steps.
I have empathy for the man who tries, and fails. But zero for the man who never tried.
Exactly.GoingAwol wrote:Marcos,
You are out of touch with reality buddy. It's not as simple as trying for a lot of guys in this country. I should know! I am 24 years old and I have been trying to meet women since I was a teenager. Yes, I am a virgin and yes, it is not by choice. And you know what else? It's not my fault. The only women I would have a chance with are obese and ugly and I wouldn't be able to have sex with them anyway because I'm not attracted to them. How do I know? I tried to hook-up with a fatty last year and couldn't get it up because I simply wasn't attracted to her. So you are flat wrong when you say every guy that is a virgin is a loser. Some guys, like myself, simply don't have any options that are acceptable. And by that I mean they couldn't attract a woman they are attracted to so they could get a boner to have sex in the first place. You aren't taking things like that into account. All I know is I tried for years,failed, and I'm done fighting a losing battle. All of my time and energy will now be put toward getting overseas. My only regret is not finding out about foreign women earlier in life and giving up om pursuing American women sooner. If I could go back in time I'd stop pursuing America as a teenager and start saving money and doing whatever it took to get overseas as soon as I could.
