Derp wrote:I know that American women overall are pretty terrible, but I have to say that out of all American women that white women are by far the worst. Let's be real, white women are at the top of the dating game when a man wants to find a woman. Nearly every man in America finds white women to be the most attractve race of women compared to other races. While yes they are very attractive physically, they are also the most spoiled and entitled race of women in America.
As a white man, it frustrates me how materialistic and narcissitic they are. Not only are they very hard to please or date, white women are very critical of white men recently. I have dated other races of women and found that they are more down to earth than white women in general. Personally, I think I am going to give up on white women and focus on asian women. Asian women seem to be better than white women overall. What's funny is that I was dating an asian women one time and while we were at the movies buying our tickets, there were some white women behind us making snide remarks.
Apparently it's ok for white women to date outside their race, but it's a problem if a white man wants to do the same? Whatever, I don't like white women and I know other white men that are not into white women either. Anybody else feel the same?
Yes.I do feel that way. Although there seems to be confusion here, for me. There seems to be men who have it their objective to sleep with as many women as possible - and then there are others who try and find quality women. Kind of your traditional standards of good women...and then it seems, there are many men who are trying to do both, at the same time -mixed up...caught in the middle, of it. How does it work?
I think realistically - at least from what I've seen - is that men will sleep or need to sleep around. I'm used to the male bashing, and primal insults; I've heard them all my life since I could walk as a child...so nothing new there, that men are pigs, like to sleep around etc (in the pejorative)... It wasn't until moving to Turkey, that I experienced that attitude was not normal, or natural, for a man to have.
Is this accurate? The men there were men and proud of it, saw nothing at all wrong with sleeping around or trying to get some sex. ..They saw it as completely natural. I'm starting to think this is terrible what our country does to us. What is natural is villanized.
Sadly, I'm still affected, but I'm trying to change.
I'm caught in this myself. I'm recently thinking about all this stuff, again. I think it was too complicated before, and I just pushed it away. I'm recognizing a lot of things people are saying, as things I've felt long before - in the distant past...or still to this day feel. Especially the stuff about white women, but I think I applied this to all women. I somewhere down the line, just started to see all the women as the same, which is unfortunate and sad.
I have a bad track record of dating - because I just, don't try. That's it. It's terrible. I want to do something about it. I want a good girlfriend. There is a part of me that wants to "sleep around", and bang as many chicks as possible, as I can.
I'm not sure how to handle it. Trying to be a good, traditional respectful man - that treats women well, still respects them...while at the same time having sex with many girls, and having fun doing what I want.
Misery and happiness are only states of mind.