Whoa, whoa hell..E_Irizarry wrote:Whoa f***ing whoa. A lot of Black men are some of the most matriarchal ANDDDDDDDDDDDD hypermasculine men on the planet!! It sounds like a contradictory paradox, but a lot of Black people in general are walking contradictions: one moment they are looking for a strawman argument, another moment they are so charlatan when it comes to their accolades just to get "one up on ya" so they can feel better about themselves (e.g. a classic Black woman example, "I got a degree in such-in-such!" WE ALL HAVE HEARD THAT whether provoked or not!!!), one moment it's "I hate Whitey" or "I'm a Kemetic all-true Nubian Black man", or "Jesus died for me and my sins" rhetoric depending on how they feel and/or the situation they are in at that moment and they were raised primarily by spineless Black men and/or single mothers whom inoculated Black men with "you better respect a woman; disrespecting your Black woman is like disrespecting yo' momma!".OutsideoftheBox wrote:Why are you searching for a female in America? Why is it that you believe white males are "treated better" when they are the main males being married and divorced by females? Most American black females don't even get married. Most American black men hate American black females (as do most other males) Thus the main males getting shafted in divorce court must be white males by white American females.skateboardstephen wrote:I just went on a small trip to Virginia to visit some old high school friends who where all white males and i stayed at the house of one of those friends with his wife and made this observation.In the rare cases that American women do exhibit good behavior it seems to only be reserved for a white man and if you are a black man in America and deal with American women it seems as if you are doomed to come home to deal with a belligerent women every day when the white guys get the "honey your home i got diner ready" type of women.
Women in America don't respect black men nor take them serious as far as anything long term even if he is a good black man that works 40 hours a week has no felonies and is trying to provide for his kids,so it is really no wonder why black men in America say "f**k it why bother"even black women when they have good looks education and are well to do they save this behavior for white men while black men get the sassy,chicken necking ,stomp her feet black women.
And with black men saying they are going to get a white American women we come back to the same thing due to the way black men are viewed in society it seems as if only the bottom of the barrel trailer trash white women seem to want to co-habitat with black men but they tend to be ghetto wiggets that just follow black women's behavior in how they treat black men.
If you are a black man in the country that does have a good head on your shoulders you really don't have much of a choice other than to go abroad if you want to settle down and have a family.
I've never agreed with the "They love the white male more than me" spiel that seems to be going around the "good black man" crowd. American females love NO ONE. They don't even love themselves. If a white male is willing to bend over backwards and shell money out for p***y (which most are) then they will go for the white male.
Its all about dating who is the WEAKEST for American females. They want a male they can CONTROL. Black MEN refuse to be controlled by females. Nor do they run around trying to chase females down. Or sit around worried about what females in America think of them.
American men need to grow some balls. Stop all this "good man" crap.
Yes, many White people act frivolous just so they can remain "one up on ya", too. It's an American idiosyncrasy.
Those males who adhere to matriarchy, Egypt, Jesus, etc. are victims of government policy, Caucasian Jew media, and overall white supremacy (especially since the last time I saw a picture of "Jesus" he looked like a white hippy).
America itself is Eurocentric in origin. The pseudo-matriarchy you now see in the so-called "ghetto" is the result of various government policies, programs, etc.
In fact, the first "ghetto" was an area in Italy where white Jews were forced to live.
Those spineless black males are the creation of single mother families which were first empowered by FEMINISM and most importantly spineless WHITE MALES.
Pointing to the effects Eurocentric government/policy/culture/etc. has had on the so-called "black" family; is like blaming my shirt for getting wet after YOU throw water on it.