New Executive Summary for HappierAbroad!

[Winston]

Hi folks,
Here's what I've been working on the past few days, doing many re-edits since I'm a picky perfectionist.

Check out my NEW Executive Summary for HappierAbroad and let me know what you think! Does it define our purpose and vision well? Does it represent how you think and feel? Any suggestions for improvement?

http://www.happierabroad.com/executivesummary.php

"It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society."
- Jiddu Krishnamurti

Happier Abroad Movement Executive Summary

Purpose and Objectives


Happier Abroad is a website and movement started by Winston Wu and his expat Cultural Advisors in 2007 to bring exposure to the unreported fact that human relationships and mental health in America have eroded to the point of being dysfunctional, unhealthy and unnatural, resulting in America being one of the worst places, if not the worst, for social life, dating, relationships and mental health, leaving many people lonely, isolated, alienated, insecure, sad, depressed, empty, dateless and sexless. We are the first and only expat website that addresses these sociological issues and offers a real solution, while others deal only with economic concerns and politically correct topics. We offer an overseas solution to this epidemic that has led many to romantic, social and personal fulfillment, that we know for a certainty works, based on our firsthand direct experiences and that of many we know.

In America, there is a vast silent epidemic of social dysfunction, loneliness, isolation, insecurity, sexual deprivation and poor mental health, more than in any other country, which is underreported. There is a major lack of human connection in America. People are afraid of other people and are disconnected. They live in a bubble and consume, oblivious to everyone else. Human relationships are not just difficult in the US, but have become inherently UNNATURAL as well, which is a death toll on the whole concept. Everything is all about work and consumption, resulting in a society of souless commercialism, all the while there is social and psychological dysfunction everywhere among the populace which is being denied. The culture and society have a very negative effect on one's self-esteem and leaves one feeling fragmented and empty, easily becoming sad and depressed, particularly if one is a sensitive type. It's as if something in the US keeps trying to make you feel unworthy, insecure and "not good enough". And the dating scene is the most difficult, unnatural and dysfunctional in the world.

These conditions are evident by a plethora of facts and statistics, such as the following:

(Statistics for the below facts can be found at http://www.happierabroad.com/ebook/Page41.htm)

a) Abundant firsthand testimonial accounts, both online and offline. Hundreds are presented on this site.
b) Studies showing social isolation and loneliness at an all time high, and that a large percentage of Americans are lonely and have few or no real friends.
c) America has the highest rates of mental illness in the industrialized world. Statistics of people with mental health problems range from 25 to 50 percent. Furthermore, Americans tend to have to go to therapists or mental health professionals when they have problems, whereas people in other countries usually have close friends to talk to and do not need professional therapists.
d) The divorce rate in the US is now 50 to 60 percent, much higher than in the past.
e) Most people in America have a thick psychological wall around them, which you can feel in their vibes, and live in their own bubble, which they call privacy. They are disconnected and isolated from others, except a small group of friends. They are paranoid and afraid to talk to strangers, and are uncomfortable meeting new people (hence the term "breaking the ice"). What most Americans don't realize is that throughout the history of mankind, people were not like this - paranoid, living in a bubble and having to "break ice" to talk to strangers - and thus it is an unnatural artificial creation of US culture and society.
f) There is an inherent fragmentation of one's self and disconnectedness that people feel in America. Foreigners and immigrants notice it too. It's as if you become "fragmented" inside, no longer "whole"... which is very "unwholesome" so to speak. The vibes of the culture also feel "dysfunctional", especially to sensitive people.
g) Americans in public do not look very happy, but grumpy, irritable and overweight. And children act spoiled, angry and demanding. Unfortunately, more wealth in America has not led to more happiness, as studies show. Obviously something is making them unhappy and there are probably a myriad of reasons.
h) The extreme difficulty and unnatural process of the US dating scene. Many men feel that the male/female dynamic in relationships has been poisoned and disfigured. Women no longer desire to be feminine, are super picky, unapproachable, not easy to meet, have a sense of entitlement off the charts, treat men badly, are selfish, think every guy is a creep, and often do not even need men in their lives, preferring to walk their dog alone on their day off rather than be with male companionship. Men also feel oppressed by the media, which is politically correct and treats men as an inferior gender. In addition, every woman seems to be taken, and with such a deficit of choices, any attractive women left become virtually unattainable. The US has become so prudish that the simple act of flirting between men and women is now deemed in society as "creepy, inappropriate, and a violation of boundaries". And in turn, many American women report that men are desperate, clingy and needy, or abusive a-holes who don't listen to them. All this is a vicious cycle that only gets worse.
i) There are more nice decent guys in the US who can not get a date to save their lives, than there are in any other country I've seen. You will not find guys in Europe, Russia, South America or the Philippines, for instance, complaining that they can't meet women or get any dates or that women are unapproachable in their country.
j) The existence of a ridiculous subculture industry in America for Seduction/Pick Up Artist Gurus (Mystery, Ross Jeffries, David DeAngelo, and many others), where men pay for seminars and books from teachers claiming to have "mastered techniques" for meeting and bedding women. This "artificial industry" has been on the rise, so that even Dr. Phil has featured some of them on his show. They've treated courtship as a whole "scientific field of study". (My God) This should tell you a lot right there. Why would such a natural thing like male/female courtship need to be reduced to a "technique" or "science" as though it were a difficult subject that needed to be "mastered"? (Sheesh) In other countries, it's just like you see in the movies - boy meets girl, they flirt, hold hands, say "I like you" to each other, then kiss and so forth - it's completely natural and effortless. (I've experienced that firsthand many times abroad) The students of this industry even have to "master an art" (e.g. advanced conversation techniques) just to hold conversations with women, which in other countries is the most natural thing in the world! Now the thing is, this type of industry is unheard of in other countries. I challenge you to find another country where men pay "seduction or pick up artist gurus" to teach them how to meet women. You can't, cause in other countries, the process is natural and flows normally, not F ed up like in the US. The "chumps" in this subculture never stop to ask the obvious question: "Why doesn't this industry exist in other countries too?" (And suffice to say, I have yet to meet a single person who could demonstrate and prove that these PUA/seduction techniques turned his love/dating life around 180)

So you see, while America offers many nice luxuries, comforts and amenities, what it does NOT offer is a culture and environment conducive to natural healthy relationships, friendships and self-esteem/mental health, but instead offers the exact opposite. People tend to be stuck up, snobby and anti-social. There is a lack of human connection. People fear others. There is a feeling of emptiness and dysfunction, as if sadness and depression are always around the corner. Something in the culture just does not make you feel good about yourself. And the dating scene is hostile, creepy and insane, no fun at all. America touts itself as the greatest and freest country in the world, yet its social life, dating scene and mental health are among the WORST in the world (its healthcare system is also an insane mess and its food way too fattening).

It is an obvious fact that one of America's weaknesses is its socialization process, which leaves a lot to be desired and contributes to an anti-social culture detrimental to human relationships. America is a country "built for doing business, not living life." What results is souless commercialism with no true human connection. America is not good for sensitive people, who tend to get down easily. The over-competitive culture has a way of making them feel unworthy. They are often referred to therapists, who try to give them coping skills, but not a solution to the real problem which is in the society and culture. Many in the US have no one to talk to about their problems, so they go to therapists and shrinks, who cannot solve their problems, only give them coping skills to endure the insane sick society they live in.

All these things are terrible and depressing, like a widespread psychological cancer growing in silence. We believe that it is better to bring it all to light than to simply ignore and deny it as the media has done. After all, ignoring an epidemic will not make it go away, but facing it and acknowledging it is the first step toward coping with it and finding a solution.

The lonely and depressed suffer silently in misery and frustration, with their pain invalidated. They fear complaining about it or admitting to it, lest they be seen as a "whiney loser" and be told that "the problem is you". So they tell themselves that they must be lacking something, and that if only they had this or that, it would solve their problems.

Also, our culture holds that we must always maintain the facade of always pretending that everything is great and "hunky dory" else we be ostracized and shamed. For example, in a typical US office environment, everyone greets each other with "Hi. How are you?" and then must always reply that they are always "Great" even if they not feeling well. The social culture demands such fakeness. This is why most are in denial about this epidemic, why it's not reported in the media, and why it's a taboo topic.

People and nations tend to deny their own weaknesses, and America is no exception. America shields itself from criticism by condemning anyone who complains as "the problem" which is a purely egoic defense mechanism that does not solve anything. People in the US are indoctrinated from childhood to believe that society is "normal and healthy" and that it is our job to conform and fit into it. If we don't, if we are unhappy, miserable or dysfunctional, then we are "the problem" and must fix ourselves. So most people buy that and are blind to society's inherent dysfunction, weaknesses, lies, false assumptions and negative affect on people. That's why there is widespread denial of all this. But we don't buy it. We see the false assumptions, unnatural expectations and dysfunction inherent in US society and culture. As Indian philosopher Jiddu Krishnamurti noted, "It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society."

The US media completely ignores all this, focusing instead only on economic problems and perpetuating the myth that working and consuming makes one happy and fulfilled. This was proven false long ago, since if it were true, most Americans would look happy and healthy, but any cursory glance reveals that they aren't. Yet the media still perpetuates this myth in order to boost the economy, which is their job. And they also do it by feeding you terrible stories designed to keep you living in fear and paranoia, so that you will concentrate more on working and consuming. They also feed the fear that every stranger out there is a potential psycho and creep, inciting people to assume the worst about others, and making them "paranoid". Moreover, they keep you dumb and superficial by feeding you useless news about celebrity's lives (as though you had no life of your own).

We wish to help the afflicated rather than simply ignore them, and we offer them a real solution that works reliably, transforms their lives and fulfills their needs. Our solution is not some "technique" that you have to master or some "secrets" that you have to buy from us, (as the con-artists from the PUA/Seduction community sell) but consists of only two simple words - GO ABROAD

Simply put, one takes the overseas path, by going abroad to cultures and environments that are still conducive to happy healthy human relationships, friendships, dating, male/female dynamics, social life, self-esteem and mental health. It's currently the best and most effective solution, the only one that has consistently proven to work for the average male, not just for a select few or only in theory (as other proposed solutions turn out to be). We and many that we know can testify to it firsthand. It works simply, naturally and effortlessly. But because it is taboo and unconventional, it has not received much exposure.

We offer this solution as hope and validation for those afflicted from American's dysfunctional social environment, so they can know that they are not to blame after all, but rather conditions in society are to blame. This is easily proven by the fact that for many, including us, feelings of social dysfunction, isolation, loneliness, alienation, insecurity, sadness, depression, emptiness, datelessness, sexlessness, and poor mental health naturally disappear upon the changing of societies and cultures. And doing so has culminated into romantic, social and psychological fulfillment for many as well. We offer a mountain of verifiable evidence, testimonials, photos and videos to demonstrate this, all of which are indexed from the home page.

While we acknowledge that there is no one right solution or path for everybody, we do know for a fact that our solution and path has already helped and transformed the lives of many. See these testimonials for example.

http://www.happierabroad.com/testimonials.php
http://www.happierabroad.com/ebook/Page74b.htm

Therefore, we offer it as an option to consider, informing others and bringing light to it, since other media outlets and websites refuse to do so and will not touch upon this issue for some reason (perhaps because of the taboo nature and "loser stigma" attached to it).

We also know that some who are well aware of these problems prefer to stay in America and try to change things. However, we know that this would be an unrealistic endeavor for obvious reasons, and we feel that life is too short to fight a losing battle forever, especially when a solution exists (going abroad) that will immediately bring relief and fulfillment. But for those who wish to try to change things in America though, we wish them luck.

We wish to clarify that Happier Abroad and its fans are not anti-American or anti-patriotic, nor do we hate our country. We simply acknowledge the reality that the American environment is NOT conducive to happy healthy human relationships, friendships, social life, dating and mental health. And we wish to do something about it rather than live in denial or "blame ourselves" as society says we should do, because doing so has not proven to get results, nor does it lead to romantic, social or personal fulfillment. But our solution and path does. It WORKS, leads to happier, healthier romantic and social lives, and psychological well-being. And that's the bottom line, regardless of its taboo nature or "loser stigma" that society places on it.

(The fact that our way works despite its taboo nature also says something, namely, that society is in denial about its own problems, blaming the afflicted victims instead)

The vast material available at HappierAbroad.com demonstrate and prove this conclusively. We offer proof - an abundance of verifiable testimonials, photos and videos - guidance, inspiration, and an online community. We have inspired many, given them HOPE and a SOLUTION that has led many to romantic, social and psychological fulfillment overseas, making them "Happier Abroad".


So please visit HappierAbroad.com!

Let us show you proof of our solution, inspire you and open your eyes!

[Winston]

BTW if anyone calls you "unpatriotic" or "anti-American" for being a fan of this site, show them this paragraph I've written to address that:

We wish to clarify that Happier Abroad and its fans are not anti-American or anti-patriotic, nor do we hate our country. We simply acknowledge the reality that the American environment is NOT conducive to happy healthy human relationships, friendships, social life, dating and mental health. And we wish to do something about it rather than live in denial or "blame ourselves" as society says we should do, because doing so has not proven to get results, nor does it lead to romantic, social or personal fulfillment. But our solution and path does. It WORKS, leads to happier, healthier romantic and social lives, and psychological well-being. And that's the bottom line, regardless of its taboo nature or "loser stigma" that society places on it.

[gmm567]

your website is looking very professional. I really love your comparison between american and
philipino girls. The philipino girls are sweet, feminine and humble.

Wow, that's what's missing here.

[Winston]

I've almost completely changed the executive summary since it seemed too repetitive, adding some major points from my new essays instead. Here's how it looks now.

http://www.happierabroad.com/executivesummary.php

"It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society."
- Jiddu Krishnamurti

Executive Summary of the Happier Abroad Movement

Purpose and Objectives


Happier Abroad is a website and movement started by Winston Wu and his expat Cultural Advisors in 2007 to offer hope, validation and a real overseas solution to the many Americans who are lonely, isolated, alienated, insecure, sad, depressed, empty, unworthy, dateless and sexless, but suffering in silence due to the taboo of admitting personal shortcomings in America. We share incredible possibilities and solutions overseas that lead to romantic, social and psychological fulfillment for those afflicted.

We bring exposure to the unreported fact that America does not only have economic problems, but also some major social and psychological problems inherent in the culture that are being denied. Some of the major ones are:

1. There is no sense of human connection in America. People are socially engineered to be segregated and paranoid of each other, and to not want natural contact with others. "Every man is an island" so to speak, not geographically but psychologically in mind and attitude. There is a deep social fragmentation and isolation, making America the loneliest country on Earth. People are generally not inclusive, greetings are superficial, and it is difficult and awkward to try to meet people. There is an "ice barrier" between strangers. One often feels alone, even while amongst friends and crowds.
2. The dating scene in America is one of the worst (if not the worst) and most hostile in the world to men. Women no longer provide the love, companionship and support to men that they used to. Instead, they are conditioned by their feminist culture, media and peers to despise men and see them as fools, criminals and predators. They do not even want to be feminine. Rather than being sweet, tender, modest, giggling and blushing, they are taught to be angry, spoiled, bitchy and demanding, which men unanimously find very distasteful and unpleasant. (Obviously, conditioning one gender to despise the other is NOT conducive to healthy relationships at all) There are more men in America who can't get any dates or female companionship than there are in any other country.
3. The culture, education system and media do NOT make people feel good about themselves. It conditions them to feel insecure, inadequate and unworthy. You are not taught love, self-acceptance or inner wholeness, but competition and self-interest. The system programs you to try to fill your manufactured void by becoming a workaholic slave and consumer junkie who tries to buy as much as he can ad infinitum. You are conditioned to overwork and overconsume, rather than enjoying life to the fullest, having adventures or fulfilling meaningful relationships with others.


The above major conditions combined greatly contribute to America having the highest rates of mental illness in the industrialized world, and make the US one of the worst places, if not the worst, for Dating, Social Life and Mental Health. This is as obvious as 2 + 2 = 4, but for some reason never discussed openly or publicly. We are brainwashed into thinking that these dysfunctional conditions are natural and normal (but seasoned expats and travelers know better) so that most don't know any better. Those that do seldom discuss it due to taboo, political incorrectness and fear of condemnation by the "sheep herders". And if you complain about it, the sheeple will think that there is something wrong with you.

The GOOD NEWS is that in most overseas countries, these major conditions are REVERSED.

1. People are far more open, inclusive and connected. Friendships are truer. It is easier and more natural to meet people. There is an instant familiarity between strangers rather than an ice barrier.
2. Women look and act feminine. They are sweet, tender, modest, giggling and blushing. They respect and need men, and provide love, companionship, support and tenderness. They are friendly, approachable and easy to meet.
3. You are raised to feel accepted, whole and good about yourself, allowing the "real you" to emerge.


Most Americans never hear about these things, and even if they do, have trouble believing it all for they go against what we are "programmed" to think and believe. Plus they are taboo and politically incorrect as well, so even those in the know do not dare mention it publicly or openly. But that's what we are here for, to disseminate these life-changing truths to those in need, through a mountain of evidence, including testimonials, photos and videos.

Happier Abroad is the first and only expat and dating website that addresses these issues openly and offers real solutions to them. Other expat sites are only resource guides that only deal with economic aspects and safe politically correct topics. That makes us unique and one-of-a-kind, as well as the most truthful expat site on the web. We are the only one that really inspire people to go overseas with life-changing truths reasons. Our overseas solution works, which we know for a certainty based on our firsthand direct experiences and that of many we know.

In reality most in America are either unhappy or trying to distract themselves with consumer entertainment as stimulation. This is contrary to the US media's image that everyone in America is happily enjoying their "freedom" (which is illusory) and only concerned with job security. The truth is, relationships, sociality and mental health in America have eroded to the point of being dysfunctional, hostile, fake, unhealthy and unnatural. There is a vast silent epidemic of loneliness, isolation, social dysfunction, sexual deprivation and poor mental health, more than in any other country, which is ignored.

These conditions are evident by a plethora of facts and statistics, such as the following:

(Statistics for the facts below can be found at http://www.happierabroad.com/ebook/Page41.htm)

1. Abundant firsthand testimonial accounts, both online and offline. Hundreds are presented on this site.
2. Studies showing social isolation and loneliness at an all time high, and that a large percentage of Americans are lonely and have few or no real friends.
3. America has the highest rates of mental illness in the industrialized world. Statistics of people with mental health problems range from 25 to 50 percent. Furthermore, Americans tend to have to go to therapists or mental health professionals when they have problems, whereas people in other countries usually have close friends to talk to and do not need professional therapists.
4. The divorce rate in the US is now 50 to 60 percent, much higher than in the past.
5. The US has the highest prison population in the world, a fact even the media acknowledges.
6. Rape statistics are also the highest in America.
7. Homicides and serial killers are also unusually high in the US, arguably the highest in the industrialized world.
8. Most people in America have a thick psychological wall around them, which you can feel in their vibes, and live in their own bubble, which they call privacy. They are disconnected and isolated from others, except a small group of friends. They are paranoid and afraid to talk to strangers, and are uncomfortable meeting new people (hence the term "breaking the ice"). What most Americans don't realize is that throughout the history of mankind, people were not like this - paranoid, living in a bubble and having to "break ice" to talk to strangers - and thus it is an unnatural artificial creation of US culture and society.
9. There is an inherent fragmentation of one's self and disconnectedness that people feel in America. Foreigners and immigrants notice it too. It's as if you become "fragmented" inside, no longer "whole"... which is very "unwholesome" so to speak. The vibes of the culture also feel "dysfunctional", especially to sensitive people.
10. Americans in public do not look very happy, but grumpy, irritable and overweight. And children act spoiled, angry and demanding. Any casual observer can see this. Unfortunately, more wealth in America has not led to more happiness, as studies show.
11. The extreme difficulty and unnatural process of the US dating scene. Many men feel that the male/female dynamic in relationships has been poisoned and disfigured. Women no longer desire to be feminine, are super picky, unapproachable, not easy to meet, have a sense of entitlement off the charts, treat men badly, are selfish, think every guy is a creep, and often do not even need men in their lives, preferring to walk their dog alone on their day off rather than be with male companionship. Men also feel oppressed by the media, which treats them as an inferior gender. Every woman seems to be taken, and with such a deficit of choices, any attractive women left become virtually unattainable. The US has become so prudish that the simple act of flirting between men and women is now deemed in society as "creepy, inappropriate, and a violation of boundaries". And in turn, many American women report that men are desperate, clingy and needy, or abusive a-holes who don't listen to them. All this is a vicious cycle that can only get worse.
12. There are more nice decent guys in the US who can not get a date to save their lives, than there are in any other country I've seen. You will not find guys in Europe, Russia, South America or the Philippines, for instance, complaining that they can't meet women or get any dates or that women are unapproachable in their country.
13. The existence of a ridiculous subculture industry in America for Seduction/Pick Up Artist Gurus (Mystery, Ross Jeffries, David DeAngelo, etc), where men pay for seminars and books from teachers claiming to have "mastered techniques" for meeting and bedding women. This "artificial industry" has been on the rise. Even Dr. Phil has featured some of them on his show. They've treated courtship as a whole "scientific field of study", which is ridiculous. This should tell you a lot right there. Why would such a natural thing like male/female courtship need to be reduced to a "technique" or "science" as though it were a difficult subject that needed to be "mastered"?! In other countries, it's just like you see in the movies - boy meets girl, they flirt, hold hands, say "I like you" to each other, then kiss and so forth. It's completely natural and effortless. (I've experienced this firsthand many times) The students of this industry even have to "master an art" (e.g. advanced conversation techniques) just to hold conversations with women, which ought to be the most natural thing in the world! Now the thing is, this type of industry is unheard of in other countries. I challenge you to find another country where men pay "seduction or pick up artist gurus" to teach them how to meet women. You can't, cause in other countries, the process is natural and flows normally, not F ed up like in the US. The "chumps" in this subculture never stop to ask the obvious question: "Why doesn't this industry exist in other countries too?" (And suffice to say, I have yet to meet a single person who could demonstrate and prove that these PUA/seduction techniques turned his love/dating life around 180)


America and its media touts itself as the happiest and freest country on Earth. Yet how can that be in light of the above facts and statistics which say the exact opposite? Obviously America is in big denial. It cannot reconcile its hype and propaganda with the facts. While America offers many nice luxuries, comforts and amenities, what it does NOT offer is a culture and environment conducive to natural healthy relationships, friendships and self-esteem/mental health. Its social life, dating scene and mental health are among the WORST in the world (its healthcare system is also an insane mess and its food way too fattening and perhaps genetically modified, according to some).

Many out there in the US suffer silently, their pain invalidated. Society has programmed them to blame themselves if they are not happy or thriving in "the system", deflecting the blame from the true source. So the afflicted tell themselves that they must be lacking something, and that if only they had this or that, they would be happy and fulfilled. They are left to chase phantoms that go nowhere.

Our culture also holds that we must always maintain the facade of always pretending that everything is great and "hunky dory" else we be ostracized and shamed. For example, in a typical US office environment, everyone greets each other with "How are you today?" to which you must reply "I'm great" or "Not too bad" even if it's not true. The social culture demands such fakeness. This is another reason why most are in denial about this epidemic.

One of America's weaknesses is its socialization process, which leaves a lot to be desired and contributes to an anti-social culture detrimental to human relationships. Basically, the American environment beats up your ego, thrashes it, then pulverizes your self-esteem making you feel weak, unworthy and inadequate. That's all very dysfunctional, sick and insane. Yet it's all denied. We are here to expose the truth about it.

America is especially bad for sensitive or fragile people. The over-competitive culture has a way of making them feel unworthy. If they break down, they are referred to therapists, who try to give them coping skills, but not a solution to the real problem which is in the society and culture. Also, since many in the US have no one to talk to about their problems, they go to these shrinks, who cannot solve their problems but only give them coping skills to endure the insane sick society they live in.

The US media completely ignores all this, focusing instead only on economic problems and perpetuating the myth that working and consuming makes one happy and fulfilled. This myth was proven false long ago, since if it were true, most Americans would look happy and healthy, but any cursory glance reveals that they aren't. Yet the media still perpetuates this myth in order to boost the economy, which is their job. And they also do it by feeding you terrible stories designed to keep you living in fear and paranoia, so that you will remain weak and easy to control, and concentrate on working and consuming. They want to divide the population to keep them segregated and weak. Moreover, they keep you dumb and superficial by feeding you useless news about celebrity's lives (as though you had no life of your own). The US media is a total insult to one's intelligence, humanity and spiritual essence.

The system does not want you to feel whole and integrated inside. It wants you to feel empty and inadequate so that you will try to fill your void by consuming useless junk you don't need in order to perpetuate cyclical consumption that profits and runs the economy. America is a country "built for doing business, not living life." It is souless commercialism with no true human connection. The system is set up to benefit those at the top of the pyramid by turning the population into a slave labor force.

People and nations tend to deny their own weaknesses, and America is no exception. America shields itself from criticism by condemning anyone who complains as "the problem" which is a purely egoic defense mechanism that does not solve anything. People in the US are indoctrinated from childhood to believe that society is "normal and healthy" and that it is our job to conform and fit into it. If we don't, if we are unhappy, miserable or dysfunctional, then we are "the problem" and must fix ourselves. So most people buy that and are blind to society's inherent dysfunction, weaknesses, lies, false assumptions and negative affect on people. That's why there is widespread denial of all this.

But we don't buy it. We see the truth. We recognize the false assumptions, unnatural expectations and dysfunction inherent in US society and culture. As Indian philosopher Jiddu Krishnamurti said, "It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society."

All this is terrible and depressing, like a widespread psychological cancer growing in silence. We believe that it is better to bring it all to light than to simply ignore and deny it as the media has done. After all, ignoring an epidemic will not make it go away, but facing it and acknowledging it is the first step toward coping with it and finding a solution.

We wish to help the afflicated rather than simply ignore them, and we offer them a real solution that works reliably, transforms their lives and fulfills their needs. Our solution is not some "technique" that you have to master or some "secrets" that you have to buy from us, (as the con-artists from the PUA/Seduction community sell) but consists of only two simple words - GO ABROAD

Yes it's that simple. And our job is to inspire you to it and convince you with proof as close to firsthand experience as you'll get.

Simply put, one takes the overseas path, by going abroad to cultures and environments that are still conducive to happy healthy human relationships, friendships, dating, male/female dynamics, social life, self-esteem and mental health. It's currently the best and most effective solution, the only one that has consistently proven to work for the average male, not just for a select few or only in theory (as other proposed solutions turn out to be). We and many that we know can testify to it firsthand. It works simply, naturally and effortlessly. But because it is taboo and unconventional, it has not received much exposure.

We offer this solution as hope and validation for those afflicted from American's dysfunctional social environment, so they can know that they are not to blame after all, but rather conditions in society are to blame. This is easily proven by the fact that for many, including us, feelings of social dysfunction, isolation, loneliness, alienation, insecurity, sadness, depression, emptiness, datelessness, sexlessness, and poor mental health naturally disappear upon the changing of societies and cultures. And doing so has culminated into romantic, social and psychological fulfillment for many as well. We offer a mountain of verifiable evidence, testimonials, photos and videos to demonstrate this, all of which are indexed from the home page.

While we acknowledge that there is no one right solution or path for everybody, we do know for a fact that our solution and path has already helped and transformed the lives of many. See these testimonials for example.

http://www.happierabroad.com/testimonials.php
http://www.happierabroad.com/ebook/Page74b.htm

Therefore, we offer it as an option to consider, informing others and bringing light to it, since other media outlets and websites refuse to do so and will not touch upon this issue for some reason (perhaps because of the taboo nature and "loser stigma" attached to it).

We also know that some who are well aware of these problems prefer to stay in America and try to change things. However, we know that this would be an unrealistic endeavor for obvious reasons, and we feel that life is too short to fight a losing battle forever, especially when a solution exists (going abroad) that will immediately bring relief and fulfillment. But for those who wish to try to change things in America though, we wish them luck.

We wish to clarify that Happier Abroad and its fans are not anti-American or anti-patriotic, nor do we hate our country. We simply acknowledge the reality that the American environment is NOT conducive to happy healthy human relationships, friendships, social life, dating and mental health, rather than deny it. And we wish to do something about it rather than "blame ourselves" as society says we should do, because doing so has not proven to get results, nor does it lead to romantic, social or personal fulfillment. But our solution and path does. It WORKS, leads to happier, healthier romantic and social lives, and psychological well-being. And that's the bottom line, regardless of its taboo nature or "loser stigma" that society places on it. We hold Truth and Happiness as the highest ideals, not conformity to the propaganda of US culture. And the "truth" is, we are "happier abroad"

(The fact that our way works despite its taboo nature also says something, namely, that society is in denial about its own problems, blaming the afflicted victims instead)

The vast material available at HappierAbroad.com demonstrate and prove this conclusively. We offer proof - an abundance of verifiable testimonials, photos, videos, guidance, and an online community for you to participate in. We have changed lives, inspired many, given them Hope, Validation and a Real Solution that has led people like you to romantic, social and psychological fulfillment overseas, making them "Happier Abroad".


So please visit HappierAbroad.com!

Let us inspire you, open your eyes and change your life!