Ten Truth Bombs...

[redfeather]

I found these on the internet, and they are a lot like what Winston has said...

Ten Truths Bombs:
TRUTH BOMB NUMBER 1: With most women in the US, expectations of materialism have become the new security. No longer do they find security in the idea that a man will always be there for them, they just take this for granted and love becomes secondary to the almighty dollar. The vision of success that dominates this culture is one of a big home, perfect kids and of course the SUV. This must be achieved at all costs and usually the cost is the health and well being of the poor schmuck of a man who must literally sacrifice his health and well being in lieu of being seen as a loser. No longer is he admired or noticed for who he is, his moral character is secondary to this dream of the average american woman. A ‘good’ man is most commonly associated with a ‘rich’ man. being rich in spirit, and other noble qualities such as morality, means little. As austerity takes it place here in the USA soon the dream bubble will burst and hopefully through it all some semblance of reality will take hold in the hearts and minds of the american women who are living for the most part in a self centered nightmare.
TRUTH BOMB NUMBER 2: Western Men in western nations are treated like they are useless and unwanted there and it is very common for decent, well intended, attractive guys to go months or YEARS without having sex or even having a girlfriend there. The society is in a stage of crisis, where birth rates and marriage are at critical lows and men and women simply aren't connecting normally anymore. It is my belief that excessive-wealth, over-independence, and the advanced form of post-feminism we see in the west, and the disastrous affects these have had on male-female dynamics, is a huge factor in the serious issues of low birth rate, high singleness, and tendencies of serial relationships involving heart ache and meaningless sex ongoing in the West.
TRUTH BOMB NUMBER 3: Western women show no appreciation whatsoever for men, while men may pander and cater to a woman's every expectation and it can never be enough, creating these unhealthy and upside down relationship dynamics that often end in failure anyway. Being a nice and genuinely well intended guy (just sincerely connecting with a woman with the underlying life goals of wanting to get married, respect and love your partner, maybe have kids) in the west has the exact opposite of the result you would expect. Nice guys are typically considered pathetic or are reacted to with mistrust and men and women alike have a frequent tendency to simply move on to greener pastures as it is a multiple choice society. As a man, your whole life of interacting with women makes no sense - you say something nice, it is a problem. You ask for a number, it is a problem. You tell a woman you are interested in her, you are a weirdo or pathetic.
TRUTH BOMB NUMBER 4: Long distance relationships, which almost never work beyond the first few weeks in the states, are totally common abroad! Why? Because women are commitment minded and family oriented here. Accountability, commitment, and monogamy are ingrained in their psyche. On that note, you will be amazed at what is possible out here that would blow up in your face in the states. Anything sane and healthy and well intended that does not function or backfires in the states is totally normal and flowing abroad. Push the boundaries of what is feasible, you are entering into a whole different reality out here.
TRUTH BOMB NUMBER 5: YOU CAN MEET WOMEN AT RANDOM ON THE STREET OUTSIDE THE USA! As soon as you leave North America, interactions with women become totally normal and natural. You do not need a dating site, a computer, copious alcohol, or a close mutual friend to meet a woman out here! Don't worry a bit about what you say or ask, because out here, anything that seems normal and sane actually produces predictable, normal responses (unlike in the US). Tell them you like them or that they are fun. An average guy from the states can connect naturally with a woman in Europe who would be totally unapproachable in the US. Outside the US, you will be complemented and openly appreciated for being nice, not verbally abused or taken for granted. Women will approach and even pursue you! They will even smile back at you when you smile at them. I have had this happen multiple times outside the USA. When you tell them that YOU are not interested, they will express genuine appreciation for your honesty! When you go abroad, bring some resumes and some extra money, because you may not want to go back.
TRUTH BOMB NUMBER 6: These women are not in it for your worthless American citizenship! Most of them wouldn't want to leave their family and friends! They just want to meet a nice guy, get married, have a family (normal life goals that seem to have disappeared from the mainstream American mentality)! It is normal here to do just that and normal to say that this is what you want to with your life! Not socially taboo like it is in the states. The states, where people look at you strange or say they want to focus on the their career or their emotionally rewarding hobbies (what they call "passions" in the US). May I be forever done and freed with the broken American madness, God willing.
TRUTH BOMB NUMBER 7: Outside of America, you can easily have a meaningful and useful life and complete the pieces of the puzzle that are terribly absent in the US. There is tremendous unmet need. There are poor and starving and oppressed people who you can help, if you are the sort who feels drawn to do so. There are people by the billions who need to learn English from native speakers so they can participate in the global economy. There are women by the hundreds of millions who just want to meet a nice, thoughtful guy (those are rare in America but a dime a dozen abroad) and get married and have a family (and women will actually say that abroad because this is viewed as the foundation of a normal life and society there!). You get to choose the kindest and most attractive one out of the many who are interested in you and do just that. Make friends, get involved in the community, learn the language, be patient and persistent, enjoy your life, and don't look back.
TRUTH BOMB NUMBER 8: You do not need "game" to connect with women in other countries. Gorgeous, educated, sweet women will approach and flirt with you outside of the US. Players can have their meaninglessness debauchery in the US. "Game" is the diaper leagues. The bar scene is awful. The whole concept is a trap, what you get out of it (heartache) is exactly the kind of energy you put into it. Sincerity, which seems to get a man nowhere in the US, goes a long way outside of the US
TRUTH BOMB NUMBER 9: Don't feel bad about the sorry condition of millions of American women who cannot find a man because more and more men have simply been forced to give up and look elsewhere. You spent 10 years or more trying to give them a chance, and believe me, you were probably giving and working 10X harder at it than men in most other countries ever have. You swam up stream and wasted your time there long enough. You'll be loved and appreciated outside of N America like you wouldn't imagine, just for being thoughtful and considerate of women. You'll be appreciated just for not having 2 or 3 girlfriends at the same time, something that is common for men to do out here, but would get you ostracized in any community in the states. You'll be appreciated just for caring about a woman's needs, or for caring if she has an orgasm in bed, things that men often do not give a shit about outside of the US. Your years of programming in the states, which is totally unnoticed and unappreciated by women there, will make you the nicest and most popular man alive in any city that you go to outside of the US, and believe me , out here, that kindness and thoughtfulness and respect counts a lot and take you far in life out here, even though it seems to count for nothing in America. Yes, women have priced themselves out of the market in the US, and not just in regards to money, but in regards to matters of the spirit. There is no amount of kindness or thoughtfulness that is enough in the states. You'll still be a "loser" to most of them, and still not up to their standards, which have gone into outer space.
TRUTH BOMB NUMBER 10:
In Asia you meet ‘strange’ women who routinely strike up conversation with you for no other purpose than to have a chat and practice their English. No longer does a woman need to know what kind of car you drive before she’ll give you the time of day. In Asia women take care of their bodies. Rather than over eating and demanding you “love them the way they are”, there is an active pressure on women to stay in shape. In Asia, relationships are actually “Equal” and not this bizarre form of cuckoldry that passes for equality in our society. Being able to just “be” was my favorite part of dating overseas. No longer was I under pressure to perform for 3 hours during a date, my partner was genuinely interested in what I had to say and brought her own unique point of view to the conversation.

[TBaker]

America sets trends for everything and behaviour of women is not an exception. The better girl's appearance is the more standards she demands for her couple. Once she becomes older and along, those standards get lower)