The Sugar Baby Culture - A Revelation

[Adama]

No disrespect at all. Every man needs his niche.

This reminds me of when men go to Dominican Republic or someplace else. A girl comes and stays with them for a few days. And at the end of that vacation, the girl gets a gift of a few hundred dollars.

Sugar daddying is just a veil over the whole thing. They want to think of themselves as being better than the other type of woman, who are beneath them.

As for myself, I might consider that, regardless of finances, I want a woman who wants me for me. And especially, I don't want to share her with other men.

[Adama]

I met one girl who said her best friend met her fiance on a particular site and she wants to meet a husband as accomplished and intelligent as her friend. She works a decent 9 to 5 job and likes men she can look up to and admire.

No offense, ConEx, but I would feel sorry for that man who marries her.

So interesting to see this.

[Master]

As for myself, I might consider that, regardless of finances, I want a woman who wants me for me. And especially, I don't want to share her with other men.

HAHAHHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHA!!!

Well thats a good joke. You can bet your bank savings that if she is in such a site as sugardaddy.com posting her bare ass with comments like I like party, I like to go out, I am open to new experiences that she has been used and reused and will continue to recycle her dead piece of skin to old grease balls. And the only thing she'll want from you is your dead presidents. If in all seriousness you do consider "without fiances" why dont you just take the sugar out?

[Contrarian Expatriate]

Contrarian Expat,

I have seen quite a few condescending insulting posts from you over the past few months. You also brag about having money, looking around 30 though you are in your 50's, and how a 19-year-old and women in their 30's want to hang around you, while you go on about the MGTOW lifestyle and how it is supposedly superior to marriage. Now, I read you are paying girls to spend time with you. Did you meet the 19-year-old on a sugar baby/sugar daddy website?

If you need to pay money to get a girl to pay you some attention, I understand why you would want to do that. But doing that and being insulting and condescending to posters who get married doesn't go well together. If you are actually admitting to paying girls to date you, then you should be careful and behave yourself with the insults. You have left yourself wide open. I don't see why you aren't embarrassed to admit it.

I'm sure it's a tough sell to the younger generation you are trying to influence that paying a young woman to spend some time with you is superior to having a woman who actually loves you and cares about you, especially since not all of them have a lot of money for that sort of thing. And some posters don't seem like they will when they get to be 50.

If you took the time to read my initial post in this thread, you'd already know:

-I am very new to the phenomenon, as I have only used it for little more than a month which is how long I've been back in the USA.

-I have only tried it here in the United States since I don't live here and it is much more difficult for a guy my age to meet young women in the USA. Age gap relationships are taboo in the USA because feminism wants it that way.

-I have never had the need to look into it overseas because women actually prefer age gap relationships where I travel.

-Since it has been far more successful than I could have ever imagined, I want other unmarried men to know about it.

-I am not at all embarrassed about it because sugaring is a privilege, a luxury and something that inspires awe in other men when I am walking around with one of my gorgeous young friends. It also social proof from other young women who think, "That guy must really be something special if he is with HER!" Not every man is willing or able to partake (yourself included), so there is nothing to be embarrassed about. Quite the contrary; it's a shame you won't be able to see what I mean.

You also don't get that when young women agree to meet up with you, they ALREADY find something appealing in you. You seem to skip over the fact that many of these women WANT relationships with accomplished men who have means because average and younger men don't do it for them.

Finally, negligible payments for entertainment and initial meet-ups are but a small price to have young, georgous women around all the time.

Other cultures I've lived in have similar arrangement systems called "sponsoring" or "papiki" in Russian speaking countries, so the idea is not entirely new to me but the results very much are.

I think it is a great idea that has exceeded all my expectations, but since you married as a religious virgin in Indonesia, it is just not something you would be cut out to understand. And why should you when you resigned to living under the thumb of marriage?

[Contrarian Expatriate]

If 'sugar daddy' is advertised on the site, isn't this kind of like an escort service or pretty close to prostitution. The premise is that the man pays a young woman for the temporary arrangement to be his girlfriend and/or provide other services.

We all know it costs money to date or marry, but on the woman's side, it isn't supposed to be just about the money.

And CE, you asked me before to find one post where you had endorsed prostitution...

If I help my girlfriend out with her groceries, it is not prostitution. In the same way, neither is this.

But since you are stuck in a miserable marriage, you want everyone to be just as miserable.

It won't work

[MrMan]

If 'sugar daddy' is advertised on the site, isn't this kind of like an escort service or pretty close to prostitution. The premise is that the man pays a young woman for the temporary arrangement to be his girlfriend and/or provide other services.

We all know it costs money to date or marry, but on the woman's side, it isn't supposed to be just about the money.

And CE, you asked me before to find one post where you had endorsed prostitution...

If I help my girlfriend out with her groceries, it is not prostitution. In the same way, neither is this.

But since you are stuck in a miserable marriage, you want everyone to be just as miserable.

It won't work

True to form, you stick with your lies and bogus armchair distance psychoanalysis.

If you have to go on a sugar daddy website to get a girl, you have no room to insult people for being married.

[Adama]

As for myself, I might consider that, regardless of finances, I want a woman who wants me for me. And especially, I don't want to share her with other men.

HAHAHHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHA!!!

Well thats a good joke. You can bet your bank savings that if she is in such a site as sugardaddy.com posting her bare ass with comments like I like party, I like to go out, I am open to new experiences that she has been used and reused and will continue to recycle her dead piece of skin to old grease balls. And the only thing she'll want from you is your dead presidents. If in all seriousness you do consider "without fiances" why dont you just take the sugar out?

The secret is that most women really are free. Some will even pay for you. I can only imagine the morality of women engaged in the Sugar Daddy atmosphere.

When you think about it, this is hypergamy. Women actually get to have their own harem of relatively wealthy men.

[MrMan]

Contrarian Expat wrote,

-I am not at all embarrassed about it because sugaring is a privilege, a luxury and something that inspires awe in other men when I am walking around with one of my gorgeous young friends. It also social proof from other young women who think, "That guy must really be something special if he is with HER!" Not every man is willing or able to partake (yourself included), so there is nothing to be embarrassed about.

And these same men would be unimpressed if they knew you'd paid her to walk with you, and realized they could do the same thing if they used their credit cards to call an escourt service.

But since you are stuck in a miserable marriage, you want everyone to be just as miserable.

It won't work

True to form, you stick with your insulting lies and bogus armchair distance psychoanalysis.

If you have to go on a sugar daddy website to get a girl, you have no room to insult people for being married.
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[Contrarian Expatriate]

But since you are stuck in a miserable marriage, you want everyone to be just as miserable.

It won't work

True to form, you stick with your insulting lies and bogus armchair distance psychoanalysis.

If you have to go on a sugar daddy website to get a girl, you have no room to insult people for being married.

Ah yes, the envy starts to bleed thru. I guess you would prefer that I rescue some washed-up "bar girl" in Indonesia then marry her just as you did.
No thanks, college girls are more fun

[Master]

-I am not at all embarrassed about it because sugaring is a privilege, a luxury and something that inspires awe in other men when I am walking around with one of my gorgeous young friends. It also social proof from other young women who think, "That guy must really be something special if he is with HER!" Not every man is willing or able to partake (yourself included), so there is nothing to be embarrassed about. Quite the contrary; it's a shame you won't be able to see what I mean.

You also don't get that when young women agree to meet up with you, they ALREADY find something appealing in you. You seem to skip over the fact that many of these women WANT relationships with accomplished men who have means because average and younger men don't do it for them.

HHAHAHAHHAHHAHAHHAAHAHHAHAHAAAA!!!!!!!!!!

When I see a young fox walking with a cane the thing I think she must be after his wallet. and a poor desperate whore not worth much more than " dinner and a movie." One that needs to be added to my booty call list. As soon as the old fart goes to the bathroom I creep up from behind and NEVER get turned down for her digits. Typicallly telling me he's just a friend from the local community club or some old relative. As she flirts with me. You see these old balls aint going to rock her world like a young stud and she knows that so she uses him to pass the time and pay her bills. But when it comes down to it. He is just temporary and irrelevant. Plenty of these old geezers fall and in love want to marry her. Some stupidely do like Anna cole smith and tend to take care of kids that are not theres though they think they are. Usually being told lies like " im going groceries, beauty salon, meeting with some friends" while being locked up in the room by a young stud. Her real love.

Dont mistaken some young cats for all young studs. Some packing more money than most retirees but arent being trap by these hungry honeys sugar mamas. Some of these play girls dont have any love and play them all for the pot of cash.

[Cornfed]

Is there some way of selecting for sugar babies who haven’t been befouled by negros?

[Cornfed]

HHAHAHAHHAHHAHAHHAAHAHHAHAHAAAA!!!!!!!!!!

When I see a young fox walking with a cane the thing I think she must be after his wallet. and a poor desperate whore not worth much more than " dinner and a movie."

Yeah, to think that the slut whoring herself out to some old black guy increases her status is pretty funny, although maybe it would garner her attention in a sick kind of way.

[Contrarian Expatriate]

The more haters there are about Sugaring, the more opportunity for guys like me!

[Cornfed]

Gross. Imagine how pretty those females would look if they weren’t depraved mudsharks. Now they are already beginning to turn and in a couple of years time they will most likely resemble hideous goblin creatures.

[MrMan]

Gross. Imagine how pretty those females would look if they weren’t depraved mudsharks. Now they are already beginning to turn and in a couple of years time they will most likely resemble hideous goblin creatures.

Am I picking up on a hint that you find both women to be pretty. That first one looks a bit 'mulatto' to me? Do you find her attractive?