hammanta wrote:but I feel a healthy relationship starts out with individuals having things in common and being friends. Over in Asia (at least developing Asia) this does not put you in the "friend zone" like it does the U.S.
Exactly. in saner societies if she likes you you will know it regardless of the present status. I think the friendzone thing in the states originates from the chick s having too many options as i always state. The day the ratios change the party will be over for them lol.
Anyhow, just a quick update on the experiment.
The filipinas keep adding 'interest' by the second, it's unreal, if i was one of those guys with low standards (in general, i'm not refering to anyone in the forum) I could have a HUGE harem or something lol
Like I said before though, the hotter ones from my list did not respond or send interest; but i just noticed i had screwed up in my profile by setting my preference from 22 to 37, so hopefully that's the reason most of the young hot ones did not respond.
Hopefully. I fixed it to 18-37
Ah and hammanta, back to your suggestion on limiting the high end of the range. I do this on purpose to really see what's going on across the spectrum. It also makes you look like less of a "creep" lol.
As far as VC goes, it's starting to get out of hand, since I'm corresponding with almost sixteen of them now. Holy smokes, they're starting to come back from dormant mode and expressing interest back. Thankfully each girl takes quite a few days to come back with each message response.
I'm also hitting the stage where we'll do Skype so i don't know how I'll handle all that.
It's real nice to interact with the girls, but It's becoming a full time job.
One technical thing/tip. I've noticed that interests come in more frequently when i'm logged-in. Perhaps there's something on their end that puts you on top of their list or something. It could also just be my browsing hours.
1)Too much of one thing defeats the purpose.
2)Everybody is full of it. What's your hypocrisy?