ethan_sg wrote:
To say that all women are incapable of genuine love would also contradict one of the fundamental tenets of this site, which is that women outside of the anglo-sphere and less tarnished by feminism make far more viable life partners. Now that can't be true if literally ALL women are incapable of genuine love.
You are making the mistake that in order for a woman to make a "viable life partner" she needs to love you. Nothing could be further from the truth. Women can be very valuable wives to a man while not loving him in the slightest.
Let me repeat myself because you and other young men are so much in denial.
"The love of a woman" is a LIE. Women are simply NOT CAPABLE OF LOVING A MAN LIKE A MAN IS CAPABLE OF LOVING A WOMAN.
I do not know how many times young men will need to see men screwed over in divorce by their "ever loving wives" before they get this. The evidence of how much women are INCAPABLE OF LOVE is in the footer of every post I put in here. If you, as a young man, refuse to read The Truth Be Told and remain blissfully ignorant of the FACT that women are INCAPABLE OF LOVE LIKE A MAN IS then you will deserve all the problems you will inevitably have with women.
When my fav#1 was talking about how she might hurt me I said
"You can not steal my children, you can not steal my house, you can not destroy my business, you can not impoverish me, you can not tell lies about me to my family and turn them against me, you can not claim to be a "victim" and be believed. These were ALL done by a woman who professed her undying love to me for many years. I gave you the letter she wrote to me begging me to take her back just six months before she attacked me in the courts.
Now...that is the "love of a woman" and that is what a wife can do to hurt a man. You will NEVER be in the position to hurt me like that. Sadder for you that you will never be in that position."
Indeed...I was talking to her on the phone recently and made the comment.
"I never told you this but it is true. If I was not treated so badly in divorce, if my children were not kidnapped and abused, if all my assets were not stolen, I would have probably very much wanted to have more children with you. If I thought I would be there to watch them grow up with a wonderful mother like you? I would very, very likely have done that. But as it is? You could steal my children like Jennifer did. And I am not going to give you that chance. If you want to blame someone for me and so many other men refusing to marry and have children? Look at all the women who stayed silent when my children were kidnapped and abused. Look at all the women who stayed silent when so many other men had their children kidnapped and abused.
Men looking at you have to take into account that if they have children with you then you can kidnap and abuse his children and there will be nothing he can do about it.....and all the has is your word. But us men have seen what a womans word is worth. Women lie in court all the time and no other women care.
You are blaming men for not wanting to marry you and have children. You are blaming the wrong people. You should be blaming the women who stole the children of men on the false allegation of the man being a "bad father"......do you see how the actions of women have driven men away from "marriage and children"?"
And she agreed.....if a man as good as me is abused then all men are well advised to quit.
She said to me one time "You have been the perfect gentleman with me. You do everything right. I have never met a man like you. What I can not understand is how it could be even your own father sided with your wife. I have in my mind the question that some how you must have done something very, very wrong that you have not told me. No man like you should be betrayed by his own father."
I was somewhat hurt by her comment. So what I did was give her the home numbers of my father, Bill Toal my father in law, as well as email addresses for Bill, Jennifer and my former sons. I also handed her the letter that Jennifer wrote 6 months before divorce begging me to take her back.
This letter.
http://www.mensbusinessassociation.com/ ... fault.aspx
I pointed out to her that I have a few hundred "love letters" written to me over the years just between Jennifer and I professing her eternal gratitude at what I have done for her and her children and her undying love. Undying until committing perjury in the divorce courts enables her to steal from me.
I gave these things to her and said.
"Would a man who has done no wrong, who was voted by his cousins to give the eulogies for both his beloved grand mothers, who will give you the contact details for those who have betrayed him, be the kind of man that has something to hide from you? Would I give you these things if I had something to hide? These people will very likely tell lies about me but I am not concerned that they do or not as you will see through the lies.
Go ahead. Contact these people. If you have any question in your mind as to my honesty or integrity, contact them and settle that question in your mind."
She read the letter from Jennifer. At the end she held it out and said
"You are telling me that she wrote you this just six months before calling you a wife beater, an adulterer, a bad father, and abandoning your children?"
"Yes. You can contact her and ask her yourself. You can see the date on it. You can see it came from her email address. You can contact her and ask her if I have faked it. All members of my family know she sent this letter and they betrayed me anyway. Even my own father. That is what it is to be a man in the west now."
She shook her head and said "I find it so hard to believe that a mans father would betray his own son even when his wife has written a letter like this. I do not doubt this is the case. But I can not understand, I can not comprehend, how could a mans father betray him like this?"
And I said "This is how much men are hated in the west now. The best of the best men are hated on and betrayed by their own mothers and fathers in favour of the most disgusting and disgraceful of women. This is how it is. This is the proof. This is the evidence."
We talked over this many times. She loves her father who has long since passed.
She can not comprehend the betrayal of my father. She simply can not comprehend it. We talked of it often.