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How successful is a dating profile that goes into detail about the sexual attitudes and practices of a current girlfriend? I listened to a few minutes then skipped ahead a few minutes and it got gross.
Dude needs a filter.
I watched about 3 minutes then got bored and so skipped ahead. As luck would have it, my finger touched just about the 21:35 mark on the scrollbar, and what a shock that was, goodness gracious!
Has Dan considered homosexuality? Because he has the personality of a sex-crazed homosexual. In another thread, I discussed the rent boy scene in San Francisco back on the 1990's (Polk street just south of Geary). Dan is indeed good looking and I'm sure he would be a big hit with the perverts of Babylon by the Bay who are addicted to sucking off young men (assuming Dan has a full-sized or larger dick, note that men are way more concerned with penis size than women). Probably they have a similar rent boy scene in LA, maybe even a bigger scene.
He could also become a top among regular homosexuals and be some rich guy's sugar baby. As everyone who knows anything about homos knows, tops are way more in demand than bottoms among homos. Sometimes the sugar daddy lends his baby to an older woman acquaintance (fag hag), so going homosexual doesn't exclude the possibility of occasional vaginal sex.
Dan appears to have man b00bs. So much for that low fat vegan diet LOL! If he wants to make a living as a paid stud, he would be advised to add muscle. Dan appears to be a hard gainer, so tell him to focus on the big compound lifts, heavy weights, low reps. Avoid cardio and high rep calisthenics.
Indeed he has considered it and even had a gay guy up to his apartment for a makeout session. I don't know how far it went but he did have a gay guest and they did make out. It was impossible to get more details because he talked about it in the last vlog before his trial started. He disappeared after that for awhile.
He also mentioned considering what you just said. A black male had a craigslist ad looking for a boytoy to live rent free with him. Dan considered it and to quote Dan "I was thinking about a black dick in my ass."
During that same vlog Dan said that if a guy wanted to f**k him in the ass he would want them to do it.
As I've previously mentioned he has also posted videos to youtube with him anally masturbating with a bottle. He also regularly masturbates with the handle to his video camera tripod which he discusses and shows off here at the 13:09 mark during his home tour video. The other highlight of this video is at the 6:10 mark where he talks about he doesn't use the toilet brush to clean the shit off the toilet bowl but instead just puts his hand in to clean it.
He has also had trouble getting aroused with women which has led to plenty of speculation as to whether or not he is a closet case. He said he got angry when making out with the guy and found the whole odor off putting. I tend to think he isn't a closet case and that his gay behavior is tied to bipolar mania and the lack of inhibition that can come with it. The more likely explanation for arousal problems with women is that they were adults.
It was actually gross before you skipped ahead. When you know this one extra detail. He said the he wants to go down on the current girlfriend but she won't let him. What he didn't mention is that the women he said he wants to go down on showers once or twice per year according to Dan. Imagine what that tastes like.
This is a big subject, but to simplify it I would say yes, do the compound lifts (deadlift, squat, bent row, bench press, military press, chin-up, barbell bicep curl, dip) at about 10-15 reps. So not really low reps. Do that workout three times a week. Of course if he wanted to be really muscular, it would get a bit more complex.
Barbell curl and dip are redundant and isolation exercises anyway. Chin ups need to be weighted to keep reps down. So 6 lifts total: 2 lower body focus (DL, squats), 2 pressing, 2 pulling (weighted chins and bent or sitting rows). For hard gainers, best keep reps at 5-8 if the goal is the swole look (which is best look for boytoys), at least initially. 10-15 better for easy gainers and maybe for advanced hard gainers. Hard gainers naturally tend to the lean but tough look, reminiscent of a hungry wolf, which is not a good look for a wannabe boytoy.
No matter how fit and ripped Dan would get, there isn't much hope for him in the gay scene beyond casual hookups. He certainly isn't young in the eyes of the gay community, who see any man over the age of thirty as essentially 'old'. There's this whole 'gay death' thing, essentially when one of them turns thirty, it's kinda over and done with. Now Dan may not be a bad looking man and he may be tall and deep-voiced/manly, but he certainly isn't a terribly handsome man to the degree that it makes up for his lack of social graces.
What they mostly look for in a sugar baby is someone very young, youthful looking, 'cute'. Someone who could be handsome and buff, or tiny-framed with good facial features, but definitely young, between the ages of 18 and maybe 25. Late twenties is pushing it and 34 is... over. No rich gay man would bother paying for Dan's upkeep. Or for sex even once unless he is exceptionally well-endowed, and even then his personality may still be too off-putting.
No!!! "They" do not look for cute. "They" look for rough looking street punks, pants falling down, tattooed, muscular, pimply, scruffy beards, unwashed. Pick them up in a car, drive to an isolated location, suck them off, pay them $50, drive then back and drop them off. Dan would have been perfect for this when he was younger, but I admit, he's probably getting old for that.
Cute is NOT in high demand among homos. The big shortage is of highly masculine looking and acting men who want to have sex with other men, not feminine men who want to have sex with men. Most masculine looking and acting men want to have sex with women.
Well, start another thread on this and we can debate it. I am very knowledgeable on this.
I thought you were talking about him being a 'sugar baby' to a rich older gay man, not just a casual hookup for a measly fifty bucks at a time. Of course the bar for that is a lot lower when it comes to something casual, 'show you mine, show me yours and get out' sort of thing. But if we're talking about the actual dating scene and actually getting paid handsomely, 'pimply and unwashed' won't cut it, nor will anything over the age of thirty and mentally unwell. The gay scene is notoriously picky and you have to offer quite a lot before you get paid quite a lot.
And yes they are into masculine men, sure, but a lot of homosexuals nowadays are gymrats. A gay friend of mine told me that at any given gym, at least half the men are gay or bisexual and some of them are among the most buff and outwardly masculine looking ones in said gyms. Dan Cilley simply couldn't compete, he's barely a blip on the scene's radar to be frank, even if he was actually enthusiastic, which he doesn't seem to be.
You're talking about the clean cut faggoty homosexuals. I know nothing about them other than that they're more bitchy than the bitchiest women, so why not just get a woman?
I got insta-banned at RooshVForum for saying something like the above.
I was just trying to be helpful to Dan (and also Cornfed, I mentioned Cornfed when I discussed those rent boys on the other thread, since he was complaining about lack of both money and sex then). But I guess you're right, both Dan and Cornfed missed the boat and are too old now.
He's starting to sound more unhinged and serial killer-y with each post you write. It's quite a deep rabbit hole to fall into, man. Just, wow.
Good point. It would be in @Winston's own best interest to clean the place of Dan Cilley's presence. Or at least go on record as having publicly banned his account from the forum, just in case he ever does act on his urges in any major way and it makes the news - which its sure to make, as he already made the news before. Mentally unstable, rapey dude living with a schizofrenic woman, I say its only a matter of time until he snaps.
Is Dan Silly 'Happier Abroad'? If the answer is 'no' and he is just spewing out his internal dialogue about wanting sex with children then ban the c**t - not like he's making much of a contribution around here is he?
As for him becoming a rent boy, toy boy for a rich older man etc - I know nothing about this except for that he is a mentally unhinged 6ft 3ins, 220lbs - or over 100 kgs - fit, strong man - if he decides to lose it then he is capable of killing someone - there wouldn't be many people capable of taking the lunatic down at that size - and certainly not the ordinary size fellow who's idea of exercise is giving some fella he met on the street a blow job. I should imagine however well packaged such men are - experienced 'sugar daddies' know better than to daliance with such madmen - could go very wrong very quickly and very easily.