I don't see any place where offense can be taken... I agree 100% with you as well. Just like I said in another recent topic, many women think they are slick and sneaky! Online or not! If all they need to do is wink and nod, to get you to whip out your dick, you are a bonafide idiot! Bad women are not always "obvious" to an un-savvy man, which is why I made that guide and contribute as much as I can here. Your penis will fool you if you do not think with your other head. p***y Kills. If this Steve guy really is like what others here have observed, then he is either lying to you, or he just simply has it coming to him. He will eventually get his if that is the way he rolls. No one is immune to that shit.anamericaninbangkok wrote:BTW - no offense Kai and others as I am not referring to all women met online, but many here in Thailand are so frigging desperate to find a man they'll sleep with damn near anyone. They don't want sex to get in the way of a possible relationship where a man will take care of them. The problem I see, besides being needy, is that many have kids, many have boyfriends with no money, they're head cases, or they're scammers. Good on Steve for banging some chick in under an hour + chat time. Guarantee you she was no "good girl" like he has stated.Winston wrote:AmericaninBangkok,
Maybe Steve has a charisma you don't have? He didn't sleep with them after knowing them for an hour. He built up online chemistry and webcam/phone chat first.
Either way, I find Steve R far MORE CREDIBLE than you. He makes sense and understands me and what he says is far more logical-sounding than what you say. You just make shallow points without depth or intellect.
Steve R is also above most guys here in that he will apologize and admit he was wrong. But most guys can't, even the guys here will never apologize and admit that they were wrong. Steve has made lots of rash decisions and later admitted that he was wrong and foolish when I called him out on it.
I agree with him that REAL MEN will admit when they are wrong. But most Western men, including the men on this forum, can't. In that sense, Steve is above most guys here.
I don't know how credible he is about Thailand, since remember, 100 percent of ALL MEN on earth will CLAIM to be honest and credible. So a man saying that he's honest and credible is nothing new. Not a single man in the world will say otherwise.
But I do find Steve's depth and insight and arguments to make a lot of sense. He is on the ball when it comes to truth and reality. That's my honest impression of him. I've had hours of long conversations with Steve, and he does seem very grounded in reality. He may have strong opinions, but I don't see any indication that he's in "la la land".
Your observations are far more shallow and superficial than Steve's or Ladislav's. You don't see the big picture and there isn't much logic in your points. No offense. That's just my honest opinion based on your posts.
You also sound like you are just arguing for the sake of arguing, without legit logical points. Anyone can argue. But to argue with sense and reasons is another matter.
Even if you have traveled a lot, still, you don't sound like you have much wisdom from your travel experiences. I'm on a deep wavelength, so I always have deep observations. I've learned a lot from my travels, and it's reflected in my writings. Maybe you aren't a deep person, so you can't relate to me. You also sometimes sound too politically correct. Making observations and comparisons does not seem to be your strong suit.
Winston you need to understand that just because guys seem to only tell you why NOT to do something, it might be because they got tricked as well!! Perhaps, they just do not want to tell you about their failures. I got tricked or lied to by at least 5 Chinese girls before, many other non-chinese ones, I just might not told you all the stories yet. That experience does allow me to tell others what to look for though, and that is priceless because they won't make the same mistake. People are dirty EVERYWHERE in the world, especially in terms of money. What helps to fuel relationships? Money. Nuff said. Smiles do not mean very much. Complete actions as a whole do.
I also strongly disagree with Winston too when he says you do not have experiences to share. Have you read ANYTHING from AIB before? Dude is the BEST Thailand expert on HA, hands f***ing down! Dude's knowledge is deeeeeep. He is probably post for post, the strongest poster on HA. Put a vote on it and I would bet my money on AIB. Unlike me and others, he does not make anywhere near the amount of non-serious wasteful posts anyone else here makes. Any advice he gives is well appreciated by many others here. I personally know a few guys very similar like him that live in other places with very deep experience, but they would never post here on HA, we are lucky he does. You should take some time to see the value he has given here, think about, and try to appreciate how much he actually cares about you and the others here, because if he did not he would have stopped posting here a very long time ago.