El_Caudillo wrote:The guy in the white singlet seems in good shape, maybe he has fashion industry connections and has promised the girl something. Who knows? What motivates Taiwanese girls is beyond me. Rock gets it and tried to teach me, but I'm a bit of a mule on the subject. I read somewhere that Taiwanese are some of the best people at delaying gratification in the world. As in they have long term career, financial, and romantic plans. Then how come they can't wait one second before looking at their cell phone? Taipei seems to be all about gratification, everything at your fingertips, 7/11s, ATMs at every station, nobody wants to walk more than 3 minutes etc etc?
Anyway did any of the girls you met in Taipei carry on a conversation with you online afterwards Winston?
I enjoyed seeing both you and Rock up here. Rock has a wealth of knowledge about Taiwan which he is kind enough to share. He also pushed me on a couple of things I might not be as open minded about as I should be. He is quite a rare find in that he has knowledge of countries from all of the continents (except Oceania) and can therefore compare and contrast using a large 'superset' of data.
Winston in the flesh is much like he is online, full of interesting contrary views ranging from the thought provoking to the....hmmm. I'm sure if we gave him a horse he would ride it backward, but when he gave his explanation for why it would seem plausible.
We debated various topics such as race, gender and the globality (lol) of The Earth. There were many things we disagreed on, but the debate was civil and engaging. I really don't get the hate which is out there on the internet for this site. I think if you have time to post on here or another forum about how all HAers are losers in great depth, then surely you are the bigger loser?
Yeah i dont get how you can connect with Taiwanese women or vibe with them either. They are on a different wavelength for sure. You cant have an open normal intelligent conversation with them the way that you and i have. Thats for sure. Lol. Havent you noticed there is something weird and off about their vibe? Its hard to put into words.
The best way i can describe it is that they are very indirect, reserved, fake, narrow and politically correct. So if you are very genuine and straightforward and too honest, you wont vibe with them or connect with them. Its weird but thats how i can best describe it.
You cant even joke with them or make them laugh. Or charm them with humor. They have no sense of humor and are too serious, cold and rigid. Not like other foreign women. You cant talk to them like you do with filipino girls. Even though filipino girls are more simple, you can talk to them a long time easily about anything, even if you just whisper sweet nothings in their ears for hours. They will still blush and giggle. But Taiwanese girls are too cold, uptight and serious. And narrow minded as well, which they will admit if you ask them.
So i see no logical or simple way to connect with them. Furthermore they seem very negative and judgmental as well, in that they dislike people easily for trivial reasons even if they did nothing wrong. The ironic thing is that even though they are negative they only like to hear positive things. They hate hearing anything negative and are strict about political correctness. So why would negative women dislike hearing negative things? Lol. Seems like an oxymoron. Am i missing something here? Momopi?
Heck even momopi didnt marry a Taiwanese woman. He married a Cantonese woman. I dont think any of the major forum members here married a Taiwanese woman. None of us are on their wavelength. If youre a freethinker you will have the hardest time fitting into taiwan, since its a culture of zombies, drones, and political correctness.
Another sad thing i noticed about taiwan is that truth and honesty has no value. They are seen as negative traits. No woman in taiwan is gonna admire a man for his honesty or truthfulness or genuineness. Those things make Taiwanese women uncomfortable. They expect you to only say whatever is popular and politically correct. Very weird and upside down.
Zboy1 told me that Taiwan is the only country in Asia that he got a negative vibe from. Even korea and japan dont have the negative vibe that taiwan does. I told him that since hes only been to taipei, to come down to chiayi because the vibe there is 10 times worse. I cant even go to the grocery store in chiayi without feeling depleted and depressed that i cant vibe with anybody.
The thing is, when youre in a country with a negative vibe, it makes you feel insecure and weak. That really sucks. And women will dislike you for no reason other than just because. Probably because you dont fit into the negative vibe. Lol. In contrast, in other countries i feel much more strong and confident.
Yes i still talk to two of the girls i cold approached in taipei. Well maybe three. One engineer girl in hsinchu, one dark skinned model, and one girl thats rocks type who is an accountant.
When we debate, i usually just want you to research the other side to be familiar with the opposing arguments. Thats all. But we dont disagree on much. I think we agree on most things.
Rock and i werent sure if you liked us since we act kind of eccentric and act like teenagers. Lol.