Toronto women just LOVE to show you how much they can resist your advances, and then brag about it to their girlfriends. Very sick mentality!
Like I mentioned in the post, PUA techniques don't help when women are programmed to resist, or sabotage men's efforts to get close to them. For the most part they only work on the most validation-seeking, immature women (but even then not consistently). But these women are not quality, for long term or even sex in my experience. PUA does not even get you good lays, since the premise of PUA is not to find women that want to have sex with you, but to bait women who want validation and who *might* give you sex in return. But that's only if you keep the validation/carrot-on-a-stick stimulus going long enough. The minute she senses that you like her she bails and moves on to the next stimulus, so you always have to keep her desirability questionable in your eyes and just within reach. It's a yes/no question in her mind (does he like me?), so it's like walking a tightrope. But if a girl genuinely likes you and wants to have sex with you, then it's not like walking a tightrope, since it does not come down to a yes/no question in her mind. So she can only be content when and if you get with her the way she wants. And you screen for this type of woman, not by using PUA techniques, but by focusing only on women who make things easy for you from the very beginning.
Unfortunately, the PUA mindset assumes that obstacles and difficulty must exist where women are concerned, otherwise you got lucky, or it doesn't count (since it took no skill). They totally dismiss the real lack of quality of those women that it takes so much work to get. Difficulty does not equate to quality where women are concerned.
finalflash wrote:Hi Jakob
I'm in the exact same boat as you. I'm azn Canadian, goodlooking, can sing, dance etc and I went to highschool in Toronto and basically did my university education in Ontario. I agree with you competely - after trying the PUA stuff for many years - you named the PUA, I have learned everything every major PUA has taught. It's very difficult to find quality women in Toronto. Gradually, I realized the PUA stuff could only help you marginally given you are already in a good social climate. So basically, it addresses the symptoms rather than the real causes. The PUAs techniques are mainly for getting laid, not for addressing a quality relationship problem we have. We want a quality women like these in Russian, Eastern Europe etc, not some snobby, impatient, man-hating $%^&.
I also lived in Montreal - the result is same as Toronto - probably even worse. Overall, I don't suggest Canada as a good place to find a quaity female partner - wife or girlfriend. Canada is good for getting a quality education, raising a family, asking directions but even for finding a good paying job might be big chanllenge since the taxes are so high.
So definteily foreign women are the answer. I usually find that even you learned all the PUA techniques, you won't be able to use them since it's hard to open. They simply don't like to talk!! what are you going to do? only old ladies 50s 60s like to talk.
Anyways, I would rule out all of Canada as good place to meet women - that includes Vancouver.
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