chanta76 wrote:Regarding Asian women who date non-Asian guys...it's up to her who she dates. I couldn't care less but what bothers me is that in few occasion I met Asian women who date out but bashes Asian men...
It;s like on this site most of the members would prefer to date international and bash American women.
Let's be honest without selves. Are all black people on food stamps? Are all Asians in ivy leagues? Are all American women bad?
I met some genuine good American women. Both white and non-white...I realize it was my own lack of confidence in myself and took the easy way and got a girl from my native country.
It's tough out there but not all bad..
The thing is, we men are highly logical, and we have all came to the same conclusion that we all share mostly the same legitimate grievances.
That said, I have met decent women here in the United States myself, but that doesn't mean that she will remain that way forever, or that is even her real personalty. Go on any divorce forum and you will see how every guy starts off about how his wife started out as a "good woman" 5, 10, or even as long as 20 years ago. Today? She's unrecognizable and she hates him to the very core to the point where a number of American husbands have uncovered that their wives even went as far as to try and hire a hit-man.
Dating American women, or worse, having a child with one, or getting married to one, is unfortunately,
a very bad situation to get into since an American woman has the power to use the court system to not only take half, if not, all your money, but, prevent you from seeing your own child(ren) and completely destroy your life in the process if she chooses to go that far.
As far as taking the "easy way out" by going overseas and looking for a mate, and having "lack of confidence"; that's just laughable. If that's the way you want to look at it because you feel that's how you're going to improve yourself and your own personal situation. Fine.
But I look at it as, that's just a shame tactic to get men back into thinking that they have to put up with American women when they don't. As far as "lack of confidence", American women over the years beat the confidence out of their own countrymen because they're unfriendly, unaccommodating, and treat us like dirt and kick us while we are down every chance they can get.
American women logic:
• You don't own your own home, you're a bum!
• You live with your mom, you're a bum!
• You don't have a car, you're a bum!
• You drive a POS car, you're a bum!
• You don't have a good job, you're a bum!
• You're too short, you're a looser!
• You don't have any money, you're a bum!
• You're unemployed, your a bum!
• You're didn't graduate college, you're a bum!
• You can afford to buy me Louboutin shoes, you're a bum!
• You're too nice, you're weak!
And on, and on, and on, and on! How can a man develop confidence in such a toxic and dehumanizing environment? How can an American man approach an American woman confidently knowing that she will not only interpret his approach as "aggression", but will also look down on him and reject him for not meeting her 100 point inspection criteria list BEFORE she decides to treat you like a human being?
Men over in Korea and Japan are having the same issues which is why the're going after SE Asian women, or giving up women altogether so it's not just an American problem.
