SilverEnergy wrote:You mentioned you had gotten a coach, right?
See, this is a good thing you are doing zacb.
You are finding things to work on in America.
There are a lot of things you can to improve yourself in America.
Like I said, the biggest problems in our lives isn't American women or feminism, it's OURSELVES.
There are so many money opportunities in America, more than anywhere else in the world.
You can start an online business, small business, big business or invest in real estate.
You can get mentors, coaches and business advisors. You can join real estate associations or other groups where you can learn from other successful and wealthy people.
You can also attend seminars on the topics of business, investing and real estate.
I know that the social scene sucks but you can maneuver around that by improving your financial game.
I would say to make your money in America and if you still think America isn't working out for you, then you can go overseas.
While there are bad aspects to pua, I don't think it's totally negative, at least it gets you out there talking and interacting with women.
Some other good books for day game are anything by Paul Janka and "Bang" and "Day Bang" by Roosh V.
I don't advocating getting married to American women and please protect your assets once you start making more money.
There is absolutely no reason why any of us who are members on HA shouldn't be doing something with ourselves while in America.
Who knows, maybe you might be banging models and celebrity women on a regular basis someday.
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The only thing I disagree with is the bolded. I do think that changing ourselves for the sake of getting women works. However, I don't think that one should HAVE to do that to be successful in this regard. While I do agree that the problem can be within ourselves to some degree, I also think that one has to give credit to feminism and the declining values of our culture for the current dating scene. Personally, I'd rather not sell out just to get some a** (like I used to back when I was hardcore into PUA).
Anyway, the US is an awesome place to make money. There is opportunity everywhere. Happy to see that you are making some money, OP.
Also, OP, I did PUA for many years. If you need any advice, shoot me a PM. I suggest not getting too deeply into it or taking it too seriously. Also, don't listen too much to the PUAs on various sites (they love to shame men with stupid nonsense). But it's definitely not a bad thing, overall, as long as you don't take it too seriously.
Good luck and keep us posted on your successes and failures!
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