To the OP:
1. Why would I be happy just banging hoes? I am a man with a deep soul and deep emotions and heart and feelings. Man does not live by bread alone. He does not live by sex alone either. How can I just have sex like an animal or machine? I can't even do that without some good body language or affection from the woman. Of course I need love too. Don't we all? Are some of you really so hardened inside that you can't feel love anymore? Or do some of you have no soul or emotions or feelings anymore? If so, that is very sad and you guys should pray to God to restore your soul. Or read something like "Chicken Soup For the Soul" books.
2. To me, love is a NEED. So is romance. I'm very romantic and passionate. That's why I don't fit in the US, because in the US you are supposed to only need a job and not need others. That's BS. Of course we need others. Even the Bible in Genesis says that it is not good for man to be alone. Man and God are not enough. Man needs woman too. That's why Eve was created out of Adam's rib. But in the US, I'm not good enough to get love. If I was a machine and didn't need love, I could just stay in the US and work like a machine without any emotional needs. Think about it. I'm a hopeless romantic, that's true. I'm a Pisces and us Pisces are usually hopeless romantics.
3. Yes you can find good hoes sometimes to give you good sex. But after the act, you feel guilty, like you've wasted sacred sperm on someone who doesn't care for you. I don't know about you, but there's a feeling of guilt after that. Sex is a sacred act, it's not meant to be wasted like that. God intended sex to go along with love in a loving affectionate intimate relationship. Sex, like drugs and alcohol, can be an addiction. Satisfying an addiction will not cure it. It will only make your desires and cravings stronger. You will be left more and more dissatisfied, until one day you feel empty.
However, I don't agree with the guys who say "Banging hoes gets old after a while." That's not the problem. That's like saying "Eating food gets old after a while." That's not true. If you eat and get full, later you will be hungry again. Sex is like that too. Even when you're tired of it, if you go without sex for a while, you will be hungry for it again and miss it and want it again. So in that sense it can never get old. As long as you can get horny and feel sexual lust, sex can never get old, because the desire is still there. So I have no idea why some guys say that. Of course it's true that banging the same woman can get old after a while, but that has to do with the individual woman, not sex in general. If banging your wife or slut gets old, you will simply have sexual desire or lust for someone else. And of course if you are banging hoes, then you can just choose another hoe if you get tired of one.
4. Ask
@Ghost. He has a girlfriend now that loves him for him, and he can tell you that nothing compares to it. A sugar baby hoe who pretends to like you because she wants money and gifts, is NOTHING compared to a real relationship where she likes you and wants to be with you because she wants to, not because she wants money or gifts. There's simply no comparison when you experience both.
5. I don't get why a lot of you guys think that women are incapable of love and only need men for security or money. Or that true love doesn't exist. Just because you guys have never met a woman that loves you for you, or had a relationship that was genuine and based on mutual love, doesn't mean others haven't. Definitely, there are couples who are together for true love. Even on this forum there are some. So the evidence and examples are there, if you want to find them. Sure. But the problem is, you guys DO NOT WANT to see that such couples exist, because you REFUSE to acknowledge their existence. But in reality, yes such couples exist. Women are human too and have feelings. Just because you men have no feelings or love, doesn't mean others don't either.
That's very Atheistic type thinking, to assume that if you don't have spiritual experiences or God experiences or experiences of true love, then no one else has either. It's extremely narrow and faulty logic. I don't think it's a coincidence or any surprise that most if not all men who think that women only care about money and financial security, are Atheists, not spiritual men. Such Atheists, I've noticed, seem to have a dead soul or spirit, hence their inability to connect with the divine. Maybe God or higher forces don't care about them so he don't draw them or try to go inside them. (there's a Bible verses in the Gospel of John where Jesus says "No one can come to me unless the Father draws him") And not surprisingly, most guys I know who like to get drunk and abuse alcohol and have one night stands, tend to be Atheists too, because they are empty with dead souls and have no inner life. You don't see Christians getting drunk a lot or believing that all or most women only want money. Only Atheists are that dense and narrow.
@Adama what do you think?
Most likely, such men who believe that "women are all about money" and incapable of true love, have never truly connected with women or had any good quality friendships with them, and only know how to use women for sex, so they assume everyone else is like them too, which is false. Moreover, use basic logic here. If women only wanted money, then rich men would never get rejected and they could have any woman they want. But that's not true. A woman cannot marry a man, even a rich man, if she does not love him or have any emotions or feelings for him. Only the most wicked and soulless women could do that, but not good decent women. These men simply do not apply basic logic or critical thinking. They are pure cynics.
Check out this recent romance movie I just saw called "The Notebook (2004)". Yes it's a romantic chick flick. But such lifelong relationships of true love do exist. And notice how near the end of the movie, the woman has to choose between two men - her first love and her fiance who is tall, handsome, and from a wealthy family. Even though her fiance has looks and money, which should be her ideal match, the problem is that her first love, Noah, made her feel ALIVE in a way that her fiance could not. With Noah, she felt so ALIVE that he was able to bring out her artistic passions in painting. She could paint with him, but not with her fiance, which only provided comfort and status. I think even women will admit that a man who makes her feel ALIVE is more important than a man who just provides money, security and status. As the greatest mythologist Joseph Campbell said: "I don't believe people are looking for the meaning of life as much as they are looking for the experience of being alive." You guys should see "The Notebook" to see what I mean. It will renew your faith and hope in love. Because yes, such relationships do exist if you wanna look for them. And it will show you what a relationship that makes both partners feel ALIVE is like. See trailer and info below.
The Notebook (2004)
https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0332280/?ref_=fn_al_tt_1
6. You forget that I've found love before. And met soulmates before, just like Ghost has too. But they never last for me. Something always goes wrong. It's like the universe is against it for some reason. It seems that it is not my destiny or path or God's will to have a stable relationship with a soulmate. Everyone has different cards and packages in life. Some are lucky in money or health or love, but not all three. Rarely will anyone be lucky in all three - money, love and health. Most are deficient in one or more areas. It could be that my path is to be that of a spiritual seeker. So that's why the universe, or my higher self or guardian angels, continually thwart or screw up my relationships. When the universe is against you, you definitely KNOW it, because the things that thwart you will not look like random accidents without purpose, they will look GUIDED and PURPOSEFUL and DELIBERATE, like a guided missile. Not the result of pure chance. I don't know why so many guys are so f***ing stupid that they can't understand that. Maybe higher forces don't give a shit about them so they are left alone and never experience such things. Who knows. As they say "Everything happens for a reason." The wisest and most spiritual people begin to see that after a while. Even history is filled with many examples of things that were meant to be or happened for a purpose. Destiny appears to be a real force after all.
I hope this helps you to see the big picture.
A man with a soul has emotional needs too. You seem to forget that. Perhaps you need to look within and see if your soul or spirit is dead. Otherwise, it's alarming that you cannot fathom the above on your own. Also many things cannot be explained in words. They can only be felt or experienced. So words have limitations too. I can explain how I feel, but that doesn't mean you will understand or relate to it. But oh well. I've done my best.