Enough dwelling on Lisa Winston. I know you two had a connection but she's a single mum and used goods by Chinese standards. I think you're fully capable of finding a girl who would have a strong connection with you and doesn't have the kind of history, baggage and mental issues that Lisa has.

Proportionately speaking they are not a large segment of the female population, but because the population in China in absolute numbers is so large, there are quite a number of 'sheng nu' women around, and as Ghost says, you'll find more of them in the tier one and perhaps high end tier 2 cities. Ye...

It's quite plausible that by the end of the year, the heads of state of the both the US, the UK and Germany will all be female. The new Taiwanese head of state is also female.

Winston, maybe you should post Vivian's pictures here too lol.

I don't know what you are talking about. Asian American females glorify white males for the most part.

All these big banks need to be broken up for good

If a girl ever suggests breakup you need be the man and follow through with it. Convincing her not to breakup just comes across as weak and puts control in her hands. Remember you have better options out there and need to get out of this scarcity mindset. My girl and I had a big argument last night....

Wordpress would be a great move Winston. You could put some of your articles on reddit too and get more active on Twitter lol. What I mean is that the register/login buttons should be on happierabroad.com itself and not only after visiting the forum page. That would make it clear to first time visit...

Btw, mainland Chinese are not desperate to leave China. Some want to move to the west so they can make more money and invest in more real estate and send their kids to good universities. Yeah. But they are not desperate, and they will not marry any guy to get out of the country. That is a stupid my...

The more people think this way the more it will become a self-fulfilling prophecy for society as a whole. It is the root of cynicism.

The connections are all quantitative not qualitative. They're moving us to a digital world.

What I mean is that the register/login buttons should be on happierabroad.com itself and not only after visiting the forum page. That would make it clear to first time visitors that there is a forum and forum participation is one of the main purposes of the site. Higher user engagement levels will i...

You're expected to do all your 'socializing' online now - social media. It's not the same is it? 10 years ago (2006) I was a teenager and there were a variety of movie, music, game,and book stores in my city. Fast Forward to 2016 and there is only one store in my city where you can go to rent movies...

Love the vibe of 80's music. Light, yet deep, if that means anything.

Not only are aspies seen as more intelligent than average, they are also often described as having an excessively 'male mind' , being overly reliant on logic but lacking in capacity to emotionally relate, to empathize with others. Then again many here including Winston can very passionate and emotio...